Love Is Blind: Sweden (Love is Blind: Sverige)

How's it going?

Um…

I guess I feel like we kind of need to be honest with ourselves

and with how we feel.

And the two of us have gone back and forth a lot, but…

Are we seeing a marriage?

It's during all the times when we aren't talking about the future,

how we want things to work out, or about our feelings,

that we actually have our best times together.

And that's not sustainable at all for any long-term relationship.

We can't just turn a blind eye to everything either,

and say, "Let's just pretend to be friends now. Then everything will be okay."

That's not enough to just greenlight getting married.

I've said myself that love is a decision.

But you have to have certain feelings for the person too,

to be free to decide to love them deeply.

The time we had in the pod was wonderful.

Like I said, you made me feel loved in a way that I haven't felt for many years.

I mean, I'm talking three years of loneliness.

Yeah, I hear what you're saying and definitely get that,

but the feeling we had in the pods we can't get back,

no matter how much we try.

And that's because we don't have the love for each other… that's needed.

And I have accepted that we just like each other as people.

That doesn't give me enough reason to… to get married.

So I feel that there's no point for us to drag it out

and continue to keep trying when we both know that…

there is no… that that love doesn't exist.

And of course that's sad. It's really sad that we…

Both of us came here to find a partner for life.

To be perfectly honest, I don't have much more to say.

I'm just gonna remember all the positive things.

I have to go to the bathroom.

You do that.

I know that it's sad that Lars-Erik

and I have decided to not continue on with this experiment.

It really hurts.

But it's a relief too, because in here,

I know that we're not right for each other.

For a brief moment I thought that I had met my…

YOUTH COUNSELOR

…my soulmate.

So it's… That's sad.

] But there's one book in the Bible, and that's the Book of Job.

He loses everything he's got.

And through everything he stands by the fact that God is good.

And it ends up with him getting everything back and then some.

And I hope it's like that for me.

I'll continue to hope that there's still someone out there for me.

SWEDEN

We've been here for weeks.

- And now we're going home. - Crazy.

Well, we're getting married first. Then we're going home.

Then we go home.

Okay, that's everything.

Don't forget the ring.

The wedding ring… There we go.

Done.

This is the final boss.

- Then we're done and it's "game over." - No, but…

- No, what? - Then we--

Then it's… Then you beat the game, I think.

But… what happens then?

We get to be happy together. We get to live our wonderful life.

You never do get to find out what happens after Mario saves the princess.

No, but maybe they live happily ever after. Cliché, right?

- Yeah. - Yeah.

I hope so.

What are you most excited about?

Are you excited about your bachelorette party?

Uh… Right now it feels like I'm gonna hang out with friends.

But once I get there I think it'll feel like a bachelorette party.

Uh… I'm already thinking too much about everything.

I'm pretty sure that she's gonna go around and around in her head a few more times

to see how she really feels,

see if I'm the right guy for her, and…

Is she willing to take this big step?

- Got everything? - Yeah.

But at the same time, I do think we love each other.

I love her and I think she loves me too.

I, I…

Of course she's nervous in her own way.

She acts all tough, but I can see through it.

Come on. Hurry up.

Shit.

Bye.

Bye. Take care.

- It was fun getting to know you. - Likewise.

Our time is… Our time is up.

Here's your ring.

- I'll miss you. - Yes, please do.

- Bye now. - Bye for now.

I'm leaving.

- Bye. - Bye.

See you soon.

1 DAY UNTIL THE WEDDINGS

Let's embarrass them as much as possible.

- Yes! - Yes, good.

Hey, bottoms up.

Let's go, girls.

Today we are going to celebrate Angie.

These are her last days as single. It's fucking crazy.

I think somebody's coming. Who is that?

Bride to be in the house. Come on down!

- It's Ibbe and Aron, right? - Yeah! Can't you tell?

Congratulations!

Hey, Angie! You're in for a ride. I mean, both of you.

I mean, are you ready for this crazy group to take care of you tonight?

I don't know if I'm ready.

Ow. Ow!

This is my bachelorette party. It's crazy.

- Yeah, grab her boob. - Grab her boob. Grab her boob.

Can you tell us, please… And for real, okay? Be brutally honest about it.

Yeah, exactly.

What are you worried about? What's feeling good? What's not feeling good?

These are your best friends. I mean…

- So we've had our ups and downs. - Yeah.

And I won't pretend we haven't.

- But don't forget… - Fuck that.

…you're taking part in an experiment. This is all part of the process.

Let's see. How should I put this…

- No, don't think about it. I mean, don't. - Oh no, she does not.

How do you honestly feel? What do you think is the hardest?

- Were there any deciding factors? - Insecurities.

…on television.

I mean, I think it's probably just really…

No, I mean, there's nothing really about him

that I feel like will be a problem or anything.

- No. - No, I don't think so.

Because he is…

I mean, he's everything that I know that I want deep down,

- that I didn't know myself. - No.

And that I need.

But at the same time, like I was saying on the phone…

- Yeah. - And I was like…

- I mean, it's just he's very calm. - Calm.

I am super silly and crazy, and like…

I can't maybe be as much like that or around him… I mean…

- You've got us for that. - You did say that. You were like,

"You've got friends for that." And I was like, "That's right."

Because I mean, I shouldn't…

- This is supposed to be my… - Husband.

- …husband and father of my children. - Exactly.

All of a sudden you've got a guy who is the soft person that you need.

Yes, and the two of us I fell in love with our personalities,

and that was before I knew how he was in regular life and what he looks like.

The way he looks…

- I mean, it's absolutely crazy. - Yeah. Yeah.

I personally feel that Aron and Angie are a match made in heaven.

I've got to say it. He's exceeded all of my expectations.

I get emotional when I talk about it. I'm like, I almost want to cry.

- Are you pregnant or what? - No, I'm just sensitive

when it comes to you, honey.

He brings a lot of peace and harmony.

And I think both Angie and everybody in our group of friends needs that.

- Aron's got his bachelor party today too? - Yeah.

- I see. - She's found her man now.

I mean, before she's gone for these high-octane guys,

who are way up here just like she is.

And that's a head-on collision.

This is totally perfect. Someone calm and grounded and deep.

And no bullshit. I think it's perfect for her.

He's going to be a bit of a teacher for her.

Fucking boat!

Now we propose a toast to Ibbe and Aron.

- Cheers! - Cheers.

Married men to be, I guess.

I'm so happy to have you all here.

Have you had any doubts in your relationship

over the course of these last few weeks?

- Not really, nothing really big. - No?

Course it's been kind of… Well, everything has moved so fast…

I feel it's more or less like I'm following a set path in a way, but…

Do you feel it's all gone so smoothly that you haven't had time to reflect?

It's all gone really well and we haven't really run into many problems

but we know that we'll run into them.

Have you ever argued?