Find Yourself (Zi Shen Shao Nv De Chu Lian / 资深少女的初恋)

I'll be going in then.

Let's go for a meal someday.

Sure. Keep in touch.

-Go home then. -Bye.

Fanxing!

Mrs. Wang.

Did you just finish shopping?

Yes, baby products are on sale at the mall.

I have twin granddaughters.

So everything has to be doubled.

Kids grow quickly, so I'm just getting prepared.

You must be Fanxing's boyfriend.

-I-- -No. He's my good friend.

Mrs. Wang, right? Hi.

I'll go now.

-Bye. -Bye.

Come over with Fanxing sometime.

Sure.

Let me help you.

Sure.

Fanxing.

Is he really not your boyfriend?

Just a good friend.

The fat expert from The Love Clinic said

men and women can never be just friends.

Don't listen to that fat expert.

Why not listen to Ms. Song?

I hate listening to Song Xue.

All her nonsensical theories.

A third party intruded.

But she said we can't blame the intruder.

If two people date and their parents disagree,

it's for their own good.

She advised the parents to understand their children.

Why can't children understand their parents?

Yes, you're totally right.

Of course.

Fanxing, I've lived longer than you.

I mean no harm.

Come on, let's go.

Let's go.

Anyway, the guy that Fanxing is dating

drives a posh car,

looks really handsome and is well-mannered.

Sun once said that

Fanxing was being too picky after her 30s

and could only date divorcees.

Look at her now.

The one she's dating is better than all his daughters' boyfriends combined.

You make him sound like a saint.

Did you even meet him?

Of course, I met him!

He sent Fanxing home last night.

I bumped into them at the entrance.

I even told her

to bring him over someday.

Hey, Xiulian.

What did you see?

Speak of the devil.

Let me tell you.

A really good-looking man sent Fanxing home yesterday.

How attentive.

He's probably just a friend.

Fanxing didn't tell me anything.

She just started dating.

If she told you,

you'd rush her to bring him home.

She told me that he's just a good friend.

But men and women

can never be just friends.

We've been through that.

We all know.

She's right.

Kids nowadays won't bring their dates home

if they're not ready to get married.

It'll be awkward if they break up.

Hongmei.

Your Fanxing

isn't exactly young.

If she meets a good guy, she must hold on to him tight.

She can't afford to take it slow like young girls.

Get married and have a child first.

Tie the man down.

After that,

there's plenty of time to get along.

"Tie him down"?

He's human, not a cow.

That's right.

How can you think of such a thing?

"Tie him down"?

It's more important for them to like each other.

-Divorce rates are high now. -Exactly.

Since you're so progressive,

why didn't you let

Jiacheng date Fang Shanshan?

How's that the same?

Would you want Fang Shanshan?

You're a hypocrite!

"Hypocrite"?

If I wasn't insistent,

how could I have twin granddaughters?

Look at how great my granddaughters are!

That's enough.

I haven't seen them for a while.

Show me your granddaughters. Let's go.

You've known each other for so long.

Don't quarrel.

You'll embarrass yourselves.

-Yes, let's go. -Fine, you guys go ahead.

I'm going home with Hongmei.

All right, see you!

Okay.

Hurry, tell me.

What did you see?

When have I, Wang Xiulian, ever lied?

Trust me, Hongmei.

I have very good eyes.

They must be dating.

Dating?

Firstly, keep your arm tucked in

and keep it still.

Secondly, breathe out loud

and breathe in slow.

Thirdly, don't let your body sway.

Fourthly...

You're back early.

Didn't you go grocery shopping?

I was at the neighborhood's entrance.

But my stomach didn't feel good.

So I came back to use the toilet.

Dad, Mom. I'm off.

I'm going to work.

Dad, look. Am I pretty?

Yes.

Do I smell good?

Yes.

Just like the demon in Journey to the West.

Go to work then.

Bye then.

Bye, Mom!

Come home early!

Okay.

Dad, Mom.

I won't be back for dinner. I'm going out with my colleagues.

Don't cook for me.

Bye!

Bye.

She's

not coming back again.

Didn't you need the toilet?

I don't need it anymore.

What was that?

Yuan Song?

Who else did you expect?

I almost had a heart attack!

What's wrong?

Didn't you read the news?

You're dressed like this and you kept your hands at the back.

You're like a robber hiding a knife.

I didn't realize it.

Sorry for scaring you.

It's fine.

How terrifying.

Other than keeping my distance at work due to our agreement,

we have to keep our distance in public too.

I can't even fulfill my duties as a boyfriend.

Since you like to buy flowers anyway,

I'll give you now and you can bring it to work.

Sorry

for just now.

Why are you apologizing?

Silly girl.

Why don't you go ahead?

I'll go have breakfast first.

I won't be late.

Don't worry.

Okay.

Bye.

Okay.

Such pretty flowers.

This should be expensive.

I will do as the card says.

Card?

Where's the card?

Card?

Ms. He.

Did you drop something?

-Let me help you. -Don't worry.

I don't think I dropped it here.

It's fine. Carry on.

A gift card?

"Dearest

Cong Xiao.

You're a butterfly that

has flown into my life."

What's wrong, Ms. He?

The writing on this card

sounds so gross.

Yes, it really is.

He used to be charming.