90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Previously on Before the 90 Days...

This is, I think, maybe a great conversation,

but something that we should be talking about.

But tonight we just are having fun.

Feels like weird we haven't done this before.

Is it like a date?

I do feel like this was a setup with Badmus and Slam T

to sabotage my relationship with Usman,

and I don't deal well with shady .

[woman speaking in foreign language]

It's up to you if you are going to be a good man to me.

No.

I feel terrible for not telling him about taking the birth control pills,

but having another kid can wait.

You're so sweet.

Huh, you know, the toothbrush.

Yeah.

What do you have to tell me?

[Ximena speaking in foreign language]

She knows it's always been a dream of mine to have kids someday.

This is really big news.

I really don't know where we're going to go from here.

Well, good morning.

Hi.

How's my little angel?

Just chilling.

- Just chilling. - Waiting for you.

Come over here, get all cuddly.

Mmm.

So nice that we had last night.

Mmm.

So what do you think, like, just, I don't know, in general?

I think it was a lot of fun.

You know, you can, you can do a lot of stuff for your size.

After 13 years of friendship and meeting in person,

only a couple of days ago, we finally had sex.

Um, it was not exactly what I've always imagined.

There was some awkward moments,

I guess, because I'm a little person

and Caleb is not used to have sex with little people.

And it just was the matter of kind of holding me and the position

was not too great but it was still nice.

Were you ever nervous about doing that with me?

I wouldn't say nervous, no.

I mean, it's a new thing.

I mean, you might be really...

You could be really used to sex and good at it, but then this is...

- Something new. - something new.

It's like, it's a monkey wrench of sorts,

you don't know what to expect.

- Monkey what? - So it could get in someone's head.

That was an expression, monkey wrench.

Okay.

I don't know where that comes from,

but it's like a curve ball or a surprise,

something you can't really predict.

Ah, okay, okay, okay.

Oh, well.

Being with a little person, to some degree,

feels almost like being a virgin.

There's a lot you don't think of in terms of position,

size, what's acceptable.

Like, I want to treat Alina well,

but I'm trying to also navigate what might feel demeaning

because of our size difference.

Like, is it okay if I throw her around a lot?

Does she want more autonomy?

And then having sex, some positions don't work the way

you would expect with a tall person.

Her own legs being bent...

changed some of the options when you have to figure out new ways of doing things

but it was a lot of fun and we definitely need to do

it more to make it natural to us.

I didn't hurt you, did I?

No, I liked it.

It was enjoyable.

Enjoyable, that's like what you say when you're like,

"Oh, that person is nice."

No, it was really amazing.

Are you trying to keep me on my toes?

- Mm-hmm. - You got some game.

I got... I want to... like, I want to make you work.

I'm just like...

I mean, I was nervous, that's for sure,

because I really thought maybe something would go wrong and then

we can't be friends like we were any more.

That never occurred for me.

Oh.

Being intimate, I feel like only opened us up further.

Yeah.

I'll tell you what...

What?

We've been here a while.

What do you say we get up and we do some sightseeing?

Oh, yeah. We got to.

Although, it's nice to be in bed with you.

All right.

I feel that the chemistry is there, and I'm very happy about it,

but it still bothers me that he won't talk about our future

and we don't have a lot of time together,

so I need some certainty from him.

It goes both ways.

Stinky.

Okay, which Sojaboy shirt am I going to wear today?

A couple of days ago, I met Usman for the first time

after talking online for almost a year now.

But since I've been here with Usman in Tanzania,

we really haven't had that much time to, like,

spend one on one time together.

He still hasn't kissed me and he still hasn't stayed in my room.

It is me, Sojaboy's, USB entertainment.

I could be one of his dancers in his video.

My butt is bigger than theirs, I'm sure.

Today is Usman's video shoot for the song Zara, and I'm so excited.

Seeing Usman in action today and his video shoot

is one of the reasons I came here.

Yeah.

I just want to be like his support system

and his little cheering system.

Like, if he gets tired, I'll be like,

"You got this, you can do this."

I want to be that support for him today.

He's not here.

How are you late for your own video shoot?

But I'm ready.

We got to hurry, we got to hurry, we don't have time.

This is going too, right?

- Which one? - The red?

Yes.

All of them are going.

Yay.

All right. Yeah, let's go. Let's go. Let's go. Let's go.

No time.

You know?

Hi. You're going to be late for your own shoot.

- Hello. Good morning. - Good morning.

Good morning.

- - Thank you.

But it is strange because the song is about my ex-girlfriend Zara,

and Kimberly doesn't know anything about her.

I had strong feelings for her, but she could not handle my female fans,

so she broke up with me.

- Are we here? - Yes.

Yay.

It's going to be beautiful.

- Hello. - Bro...

Good. Welcome on the set, bro.

Okay, bro.

There's no power.

- Where? - Here.

No. He didn't.

You can't say he is good if he is not good.

He didn't get it right here, like right here and right there, it's crazy.

He's not done at all.

Can we, like, plug that in in here, like over here somewhere?

Come here for a sec.

It's stupid. You deserve way better than this.

Yeah, just take this off.

Don't get your hair all over me.

So I'm confused.

Don't you all plan better like,

this stuff should've been done like

two days ago, his outfit choices and all that.

Or am I wrong?

Because this just seems like really unorganized, this is terrible.

- - I'm embarrassed for him.

It doesn't seem handled.

It seems very, very flustered.

I came to Tanzania because I know

how much this video means to him,

and I want to prove to Usman that I can be there for him if he needs me.

But if this team doesn't get it together soon,

they're going to see another side of me.

Boss lady Kim is going to come out

and they don't want to see that.

But the clothing and like looking for stuff,

we don't know where things are at.

- - Like, that's crazy.