90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Before the 90 Days.

Harold and Juan take to me very well.

But I've always wanted to have kids of my own someday

and that's something that me and Ximena have actually talked about.

With Jasmine, I've learned to not talk about my exes.

Wow!

You like it?

Did you kiss her, at least?

We did not kiss, man.

My feelings are hurt because I want some affection from him.

I like him.

I really care about Alina and I think she knows that.

I don't think that's in question.

Let's go back to the room.

- Oh, hey there! - Hi!

Why didn't you tell me this earlier?

If Hamza and I are not able to share a bed,

it's going to be a really big problem.

Hi!

Oh !

Yes?

Thank you.

Do you think your mother is upset?

I know, but weren't you supposed to sleep out there?

Weren't you supposed to sleep out there?

Do you think she heard anything?

You sure?

Okay.

Hamza decided to sneak into my bedroom last night.

And I just couldn't say no.

But I'm very nervous that if Hayet doesn't approve of me,

she may try to stop the wedding.

So I hope this situation is not gonna mess things up with me and her.

Yes.

Because like, I'm the guest in the house.

I have to respect her rules.

And I didn't respect her rules last night.

But I don't really want her to know that we had sexy time.

Okay?

I was really looking forward to having sexy time

and I'm glad that it did happen

but, I mean, it was so quick. It was, like, I bat an eye and it was done.

Yeah. It was bad, it was bad.

Sex is very important to me in a relationship.

So if he can't build up some stamina

that's gonna be a problem.

I know you're happy because you got what you wanted.

So we not tell her we had sex, you understand?

No, no tell mother. Don't tell her this.

Just say we lay and cuddle and hug.

So go talk to your mother.

- Yes. - Okay.

How was everything? Okay?

You happy?

Mother happy?

- What's up? - What's up?

- You need a hand? - No. I'm a strong and independent woman.

Hold on, hold on. Maybe not so independent.

- You put the effort in. That's what counts. - Yeah, I know.

Good morning.

How are you feeling right now?

Uh, good.

This is our second morning here in Turkey together.

And last night I kissed Alina.

It felt like the right moment.

I was carrying her up the stairs after dinner.

We finally had some alone time,

felt really good with each other. It was great.

We did not have sex but we got into a new level of intimacy,

so we've crossed a new threshold.

So did you like the...

the dinner yesterday?

- I think it was pretty fun. - It was fun, yeah.

I'm glad we got rid of Elijah eventually.

But I really enjoyed our time after he left.

Yeah. I didn't want to wait anymore.

I noticed when we came back to the room.

When we started making out, it was just like--

It was like all that built up energy was-- we were connecting through it.

- Yes. - So, I hope you had fun.

I-- I was so ready.

It was such a passionate kiss. I did not expect something like that from Caleb

because he's so reserved and so chill.

I imagined our first kiss

to be a little more romantic, like, more with-- I don't know,

move in closer to each other, slowly leaning in.

But, it was just, um, like a thunder.

But I don't mind it.

But you know, I'm still kinda, like, left with questions.

Because nothing further than the kiss happened last night.

I wanted to have sex last night but then just nothing happened.

It made me feel very confused, like, why do you even start something

and in such a passionate way and then you just stop it.

Is there a problem with me?

We took, you know, we took a big step getting physical last night

but, I didn't feel like, um, a need to push it all the way.

Because I'm still trying to get used to some things

and just adjust to being with you actually, physically.

There's-- you're different than some people.

It's just-- it's sometimes difficult because we're different heights.

I have to be crouched down to really be next to you.

We got really heated. But Alina is different than other women I've had sex with.

It started to get in my head because of her size difference

and it kind of takes you out of that moment and for me it was hard to get back in.

But I really care about her,

so my intention is to get past this

and to be able to be physical with her, intimate with her.

I just need a little more time.

It's just a little bit different than normal for me.

- I understand-- - You know that I care regardless of how,

you know, of what you might want to assume. Just know that I actually care.

Yeah, it's just frustrating a bit.

I always want this kind of fairytale, everything to be perfect,

to just, you know, without any problems

but it never happens like this.

Well maybe it will.

You know, there's a connection here which is deep and...

- I'm just trying to sort it out. - Okay.

But we are, like, moving forward, nevertheless.

Yeah, let's focus on the good,

- and let's go do something. - Yeah.

- Can bring us closer. - And we'll see what happens.

Okay.

All right, come here.

I'm grateful that he's being honest with me.

But Caleb and I have less than two weeks here in Turkey.

I'm worried that he might not ever

be able to adjust to me and finally, be comfortable around me.

I just want to be normal in his eyes.

You want to go get some coffee or something?

- Okay. - All right

Okay, baby, where's your wallet.

I don't want Jasmine to see me as, like, a walking cash machine.

I didn't know there's so much.

I think I might have to come back and buy these another time.

Really?

Our first night together in bed was the best time that I've ever had with a woman.

Are you gonna use your new toothbrush today?

It charges like a cell phone, right?

I forgot to plug it.

Yeah, we have to plug it in.

- Okay, baby, so... - I'll show you how it works.

I arrived in Panama a couple days ago.

So, I can say goodbye to this thing.

Yeah, you can say goodbye to-- Oh, not quite yet.

- Ooh! - Because

it's always good to have a manual toothbrush in case you forget to charge it.

I have seen some red flags with Jasmine as far as,

she can become jealous with my interactions with other women.

- Do you want to plug it in? - No, no, you do it.

But at the same time, Jasmine and I are having a really great time together

and tomorrow is Christmas Day and I'm so excited that I get to spend it with Jasmine.

- You just put that on here. - Like this?

Yeah, like that.

- Ooh! - And then you see the light, how it flashes?

That means it's charging.

Okay, is that good?

[Gino speaking in a girlish voice]

No, but it's not automatic?

I have a surprise.

- Oh, yeah? - Yeah.

And our friendship started by he being my hairstylist.

I mean, I care for my hair a lot,

so I spend a lot of time with Leo every week.

We are very close, so I want Gino to make a good impression.

And so I'm gonna take Gino shopping, today.

Leo is a very stylish person.

Gino is just the opposite.

Let's go, baby.

He's a very attractive man, but...

like the right clothes.

You will look so nice with something like this.

Uh...

And he doesn't even play any sport.

Okay, so let's try with this.

Oh, and this color could be good. You can try this other one

and if I like both you can take them both.

- Yeah... - Let's go, baby. Come.

- Okay. - Yeah.

Something I've noticed is I think Jasmine and I, um...

Take this one. The one that is on the top.

- Um... - Take it, take it.

Okay.

Okay, baby, let's try this on. Come.

You can wear one of these outfits tonight.

Yeah.