From Survivor to Healer (Ai Shang Ni Zhi Yu Wo / 爱上你治愈我)

What’s the difference

between the psychopath and psychiatrist

Everyone will experience death

loneliness and all the dark thing

Even the psychiatrist

They are more like a pair of companions on the journey

From Irvin Yalom

Based on a true story

Ok, release your hand.

I know you feel aggrieved, so today you should give vent

to all your negative emotions and anger

Remember the clothes

Yes, when we first met

How do you feel when you see it?

I hate him

We should try to let your emotion out, ok?

Now we solve the most superficial crux

You dropped off your hatred for him

And we can develop for real when we drop off the inner crux

You think you hate him, but in fact you hate yourself

You hate your weakness and frailness

You hate that you loved him without dignity

but you still can retain him

You give him everything without hesitation

you think that’s what he needs?

You even don’t know yourself.

Because you are so afraid that you will lose him.

So you wanna hold him tight if without love

It’s all your self-deceiving

I don’t wanna go one like this

I don’t…….

I don't

He loves me not.

He doesn’t deserve my sadness

Yangyang, you deserve it.

We should love ourselves dearly

then we can be capable of loving others.

Come, come with me

Go. Say it all whatever you want

Yes, maybe the one I love doesn’t exist in the reality

It’s all my fantasy, I have wasted too much time

But I am not wrong

even if it’s just my fantasy or I am naive

I will never hurt myself again

Because you don’t deserve it

Yangyang, I am sorry.

I failed you, this is the last thing I can do for you

We were so embarrassed when we broke up.

But I still appreciate the past, I mean it, thank you

I wanna wish you happy

Take care.

Why do we have to break up?

The reason is in SMS

Not appropriate, we are together for three years

now you wanna tell me we are inappropriate

Last month you said you wanna take me to see your mom

Tell me why?

Just the reason I told you

Asshole

Do not go gentle into that good night,

Old age should burn and rave at close of day;

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Though wise men at their end know dark is right,

Because their words had forked no lightning they

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Good men, the last wave by, crying how bright

Their frail deeds might have danced in a green bay,

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

Wild men who caught and sang the sun in flight,

And learn, too late, they grieved it on its way,

Do not go gentle into that good night.

And you, my father, there on the sad height,

Curse, bless, me now with your fierce tears, I pray.

Do not go gentle into that good night.

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

As you can see, Dylan Thomas

wrote this poem to his dying middle-aged father

He wanna, by this poem

evoke his father’s fight for living when he faces the death

visiting professor of Sikang hospital.

In this poem, many kinds of people

challenge a duel to the death god

Deep in mud, we still roar loud

But what we doctors should do

is not help them go out of the plight

But evoke and encourage them to open a door

for themselves in the proper time gradually

So at this time trust is very important

Hello

Doctor Yan, one patient comes to our hospital

He was reported to the police by his classmates

because he has propensity for violence

He has put on the strait-jacket

but his emotion is out of control

You should come back now

Ok, you should stabilize the patient’s mood

I will come right away

That’s all for today, dismiss

Yang Fei, we give you the jacket

because we wanna protect you

Stop wasting your time on me

Don't wast your time

We wana help you

You are accomplices

As I understand, he has a good self control

and directive force

For now it’s not a cognitive deficit

He has a serious problem of behavior

I think he has a lot of mental pressure

Who grows up unlike this?

All the men grow up with grievance.

What grievance he has?

He...

You wanna cure him?

I think he has no problem,

he just has a bad temper, like me

I told him to play the piano, he is so stubborn

He doesn’t wanna attend any contests

So he becomes like this.

You really wanna cure him?

What do you mean?

I mean if you really wanna cure him,

I advise you and your son should come here

for family therapy

Are you nuts?

You think I need any therapy?

What kind of hospital this is?

OK, You should discharge him now

Mr. Yang, you are mistaken.

Mr. Yang...

No, what’s wrong?

Yes

Lixin, run

Stop.

Boy, you know who we are?

No

I will let you know

What are you doing?

Where are you from? Boy

Who are you?

What do you want?

Let me tell you, it’s none of your business,

You wanna me kick your ass?

Piss off

Which school you are from?

Let's go

Stop there

Are you injured?

No

Tell me, why are you fighting with others all the time?

They are bad people

I know your behavior is out of bravery

But why do you fight a lot with them recently?

They all say o have no dad

They are all bad guys.

Shuren, I know your dad is proud of you all the time

But when your father and your classmates know your fights,

you think what your dad will tell you to do?

He, he don’t wanna me fight with others

Shuren, if you dream about your dad or think about your dad

You should note it down

you tell your dad that you miss him

I think he will know it

I know you like reading, here is for you

I hope you will be a good friend with Xiaodoudou

Thank you uncle Chen

Thanks

I should thank you

How do you feel?

Very good

Nowadays people live at a very fast pace.

Have a lot of pressure from the work

So it’s easy for them to have anxiety

Proper ventilation will eliminate

their negative emotion effectively

And embrace life with a health mood.

It’s called lead off therapy

Have anyone told you that you are so sexy

when you say something about psychology

Can I invite you a dinner tonight?

So that’s why you ask me out?

No, today

You wanna tell me a lie

How can you tell?

But my bosom friend comes to see me

so you should invite her also

Come, order

You are here for dinner or girls?

I am scanning material

So you should go on

I will go now

Wait, sit

We barely have time to eat together

I thought you forgot it

Order dishes

Hello, thank you

Are you ready?

Ready for what?

Why are you poking me in ankle?

Sorry