Age of Attraction

You're gonna die.

Um, do you know how old I am?

-Oh my God. Okay. -Hysterical.

Um, I'm 54.

And that's it.

There you go.

Got your seatbelt on?

Yeah. Oh shit.

Oh God.

I am…

27.

-Oh my God. -

Oh wow.

Seriously?

Can I see your driver's license?

Wow. Okay.

Did not expect that.

I figured that was gonna happen.

Oh my God. That is insane.

I literally thought you were, like, ten years older.

Um, okay.

My youngest is 22.

-Okay. -And my daughter is 25.

And three years before that, I gave birth to my oldest.

So he's 29. My son is older than you.

Does it scare you?

You know, honestly, the only-- the biggest thing that scares me

is the outside perception of everybody in the universe.

-Um… -Can't control it.

No, you can't control it. Absolutely.

Yeah, it scares me, but it's also just pretty amazing that, like,

I connected with you, and I had no idea how old you were.

I didn't want something I can't control to mess this up.

-Because I feel like we've… -Right.

-…hit it off from day one. -Exactly.

And it would have hurt a lot.

I'm… I am really excited to continue our relationship

and get to know each other better.

Whatever's next.

-Missed you. -Missed you too.

If I had known his age going into it, like,

I would have never probably started dating him.

Like, I had a child before he was even born.

Uh, they're her kids. They're not my kids. You know…

Eventually they're our kids. I don't know.

You know, his age is reflective of how much experience in life he has.

So now that we're moving on

into the real world and we're gonna live with each other,

it will be interesting to see how well we can adapt to that life.

I'm sexually attracted to her, I'm physically attracted to her,

I'm emotionally attracted to her.

So I'm looking forward to as much time with her as possible

to just grow this connection and see where it can go.

I'm… I'm excited.

I'm sure you know who I've been talking to.

-Justin and Jorge. - Yes.

-Yes. -But they are literally total opposites.

-And they're both really good guys. -Yeah.

- And… I just don't know. -Are you still torn?

I don't… I don't know. They're literally just two different--

She's like, "It's so hard that two men are fighting over me."

Oh my gosh, guys.

-"It's so hard!" - Life is so difficult!

-Agh! Agh! - No. No, like, no, it's…

Like, the thing with me is with my connection with Justin,

we've talked about, like, our lives and stuff

and life outside of this.

And I can clearly see our life, like, together.

-Yeah. - But with Jorge…

-…I get excited, giddy, and… - I noticed that.

-I get excited and giddy. - You get a little more giddy.

Yesterday, Jorge had his shirt off, and I did not know he had tattoos.

I literally was up there, and I could not stop staring.

-And he-- like, the sun… -I saw you!

-His body was glistening. I was like… -Yeah.

-"That man is fine." -I think that…

-You little slut, you. I love it. - What is--

-Oh my gosh. - Me just drinking the tea.

-Whoop! - Yes.

My intention coming in here was I wanna find love.

I've been in love once before.

And I got heartbroken.

That's the only time I've been in love.

That's hard, you know?

You have to really, uh, put your heart out there and be vulnerable.

But, um, yeah. I'm ready for that.

Are we supposed to buckle these? Nah, right?

God, this is gorgeous.

I came here to find a connection and to meet a lot of people,

but to ultimately find that person that I do wanna settle down with.

Oh my God!

I think I have a pretty clear sense of who I am.

And I think I value things that are more mature than most my age do.

Turn your gear, yeah.

I'm really excited to hopefully continue my connection with Derrick.

Honestly, he seems like a really sweet guy.

Seems like he has his life together. I would like to talk to him more.

But I'm happy. I'm happy that I've even started to find something.

I can do the pedaling and I can move it.

-Yeah? -But the gear situation kinda had me.

It threw you off.

- - But you helped me out, so.

So you're not a mountain biker.

- I'm a stationary biker. -Yeah.

I've never considered myself outdoorsy.

I actually was just hiking in Austria.

-It was awesome. It was a solo trip. - Yeah.

By yourself?

-Yeah. - Awesome. What brought that on?

-I'm always saving money to travel. -Yeah.

Everybody's like, "I'm gonna travel at some point."

-But it's like… Thank you. Um… -Yeah.

Like, when am I going to?

-Yeah. -Now is the time.

-Right. -Are you a big traveler?

-Love it. -Is it important to you?

Absolutely. I travel a lot.

-It's fun. -I love the fact that you book trips.

Where else have you traveled?

I've been to Spain. I've been to London.

Where in Spain did you…?

-Barcelona. Seville. -Love.

-Did you love it? -Yeah, Barcelona's the best.

-How could you not love it? - Yeah.

I was with my whole family too, which was really nice.

-Yeah. -Um, like, I have a pretty small family.

So it was my grandparents and then like my great-aunt

my aunt, and my mom.

-Okay. -Um…

But it was our last family trip with everybody together.

-Yeah, how was that? -Um…

I mean, it was fantastic.

It was great. Family is very important to me.

-Me too. -Like I said, I'm from a small family.

-Yeah. -And I, like, wanna have a big family.

So… appreciating those moments together is, like…

-That's, like, a big part of what I love. -Yeah.

No, it's definitely big, yeah. I'm the same. Family's so big.

-Okay. Okay. -So big to me. Yeah.

No, I completely agree.

I didn't get into details about my family,

my two boys that I have now.

I do wanna tell her, but it'll be a shocker, I think,

if I tell Pfeifer that I have a 15-year-old son and a 5-year-old.

Hopefully that doesn't change the connection we have

and the feelings that she has for me.

Hey, Joleen? Do you wanna walk with me?

- Oh yeah. Okay. -You could bring the blanket.

- I can? Really? -Of course.

-Why not? - Yes!

I have been on the apps before,

and I'll be so crazy that I'll swipe when I drive,

and I'm just kind of addicted to it.

I'm looking for something authentic and organic.

I feel like dating girls in the past, like, I've gotten parts of the one.

We're going to the Promise Room. See you guys later.

- Oh my God. - No, I'm just kidding.

So, coming into this, it pushes me to talk to girls who I normally would not.

And it's opened my eyes a bit already.

Damn, girl, you ballsy with it.

Well, I don't know where else I'm supposed to sit.

I might crush you.

-No, you're fine. -Okay, good.

I was terrified going into this because I live a very comfortable, routine life.

But there's this little,

this little piece here that just wants someone to be like,

"Come here, you complement me." Ding.

You know?

My ex-husband and I, we took good care of our children together,

and we continue to do so, and, um…

I remember driving home one day from work

and just being so thankful for my life because I had this wonderful man at home

who, like, takes my son to baseball and just feeling true happiness,

and it didn't work out.

We just kind of grew apart, but I wanna feel that again.

I so badly wanna ask you how old you are.

- Really? -Yeah.