Hot Girls Wanted: Turned On

My name is Louis Trantell. I am 35 years old.

Alexa Chryssovergis, and I am 19 years old.

Oliver Marshack. 25 years old. I'm professionally single.

Tinder and Coffee Meets Bagel.

Tinder and Bumble.

Throughout the day when I'm not working,

if I'm just chilling, I'm waiting for a call to come in...

I'm always swiping.

You pretty much choose someone based on how they look.

So for whatever reason, girls love guys that play hockey.

So that's what I found, and that's why I keep it in there.

An online dating profile tells you so much more about a person.

You can google them. You know, google their first and last name

and look up their social media profiles.

I match with them, and I try to meet with them that day.

Meet up for a cocktail.

It is the way I've gotten every single date that I've had so far in college,

is through these apps.

Just spending time with each other for two weeks.

We had slept together, I really liked him, and then he ghosted.

For the most part, my expectations are set on

it's gonna be hook up, you know, a couple of times and then move on.

Some women are on there because they wanna actually find somebody to seriously date.

Some women are on there because they just wanna find a guy to have casual sex with.

I literally can send someone a message and just be like,

"Look, I just wanna have sex."

It takes like the humanity away from people almost a little bit.

You're on a phone. You know, you're quantified. You're a thing.

My name is James Rhine.

I'm a director of marketing for a nightlife company in Las Vegas.

I throw adult pool parties for a living.

Like, it just doesn't get any better than this.

Regardless of the fact that I'm 40 years old,

I don't know, I have this different mindset for my life.

I want to thoroughly enjoy every moment.

And if you ain't having fun in life, then you are doing this thing way wrong.

My name is Jessica.

So I was excited when, out of nowhere, I met James.

Dating him is a different story.

He always opens up my door.

Always texts me, "Good morning," "Good night,"

"I miss you." "Thinking about you."

I assume that we are exclusive, and I can picture a future with us two.

And hopefully, he can picture the same.

No. Ooh. No.

With Jessica...

right now, it's fun.

She's a sweet girl. I have fun with her.

But I can see myself not dating her long-term.

Look at this one. Right across the street. We like Ashley.

You have so many different options right at your fingertips.

Technology has definitely made commitment in relationships

almost a thing of the past.

Oh, hello there, little 35-year-old in a bikini.

How it works on dating apps like Tinder and Bumble,

left means they suck, right means you like 'em.

Cute girl, for old.

We have Natalie. She's 23. Pretty blonde girl. Pretty blonde girl.

The goal is to find girls to have a fun couple dates together, you know.

They're not ugly.

"My friends are like," You're surrounded by beautiful women all day at work.

Why are you on Tinder and Bumble? Why do you need these things?"

Well, if this is what you wanna do,

if you just wanna date and have fun and hook up,

there's nothing better than these dating apps.

Yeah, boom.

Please tell me I didn't swipe on ugly people last night.

Bye.

But this is a superficial app,

so my behavior is incredibly superficial,

because that's the fucking point.

Does not represent me as a person.

I sit back and I look at the last 20 years,

and I think I've had the best time ever.

So much fun and so much sex.

I have no regrets.

I know society thinks that you shouldn't be sleeping with different people,

but there's no rule against it. There's no law against it.

Most people will only say it's a bad thing because they can't do it.

There aren't women in their 30s in the nightlife.

You know, it's girls in their 20s.

Their lifestyles are very similar.

You know, fast paced, always on the move, and they're not looking to settle down.

They're still enjoying life.

And I'm still enjoying my life, also.

A 24-year-old now as opposed to a 24-year-old 15 years ago

are light-years apart.

I'm meeting girls in their early 20s who have already had, like,

multiple threesomes, like, some crazy shit.

And I'm assuming that that has to be, like, the whole porn culture

where everyone is looking at this stuff like it was nothing.

Fifteen years ago, they were a lot more shy.

They were a lot more reserved.

And now, if you have sex with a 22-year-old,

they're pushing you back, trying to eat out your asshole.

"Do you know my last name?"

It's not my fault that society has sped up dating

to where now you're fucking everyone within the first week of knowing them.

You know? This is what's just become acceptable.

You know, I'm just keeping up with the times.

My room's a fucking mess.

This is the buffer so my roommates don't get mad.

So whatever shirt comes off, or socks or whatever...

Can't add more girls to the no-fly list.

Going on a date tonight. Her name's Alexis.

I met her on Bumble.

And it's one of those ones where she's younger.

She's, like, 25 or 26. Somewhere in that range.

Yeah, this will be a second date.

Tall. I'd say good-looking girl.

She's really funny, really witty.

You know, just has that personality that I'm drawn to.

I think because I've been in that dating world for so long

and I've been able to cross over into all the new technological advancements,

you know, going from old-school to now the hookup culture,

I take the best from all these worlds

and compile them into what I think girls want

and what other guys are lacking.

You know, the chivalry from being old school, the phone call,

the holding the doors, that stuff.

I think I've put together a nice little strategy

without even realizing it.

I remember I used to be so nervous when I'd go on dates.

Now, it just seems so routine.

When I first started dating, I would drop them off at their house

and I'd be, like, throwing up out of my car as I'm driving away.

It was just every fucking date.

I was just not used to dating girls. Like, it was always...

I would look so much younger. I was always rejected.

I was always that nice guy who was just friends with everyone.

You know, I never dated in high school,

never went to homecoming, never went to prom.

All the girls that I had crushes on, I was always friends with them.

So I was their emotional support.

I learned to provide that for these people.

I was that guy who was just... "Oh, James, he's so nice.

He's, like, my brother, like, my best friend."

I'm James, and nothing gets past me.

One day I'm sitting at work and open up a Myspace message

asking me if I was interested in Big Brother.

So I figure, "Why not?" You know?

By unanimous vote,

James, you have been evicted from the Big Brother house.

I went into the house with, like, 80 Myspace friends

and came out with 28,000.

You just can't even fathom that that many people are interested in you.

It was insane, the amount of girls that were throwing themself at you.

I'd be walking down the street in Chicago,

and somebody would start screaming, "Oh, my God!"

And then they wanna take pictures and have you autograph shit.

On YouTube and Myspace. Look, same room!

I had no idea about just the lunacy that was involved with this show.

People had made, like, tribute websites and tribute videos.

It was crazy getting out of the house and finding out that you had fans.

From that moment, it was just... off to the races.

I remember the first girl that hit me up. She would send me messages.

And I thought it was a trap. I thought it was, like, a setup.

Then finally, I just gave in.

And, like with anything else, once you give in,

it's, like, it just opens up those floodgates.

Even when girls found out that I'd slept with all these other girls,

they still wanted to hook up.

And so, when you start seeing that...

it conditions yourself that there's nothing real to this dating thing.

You know, there's no rules.

- I was like, "Are you coming out?" - Hi.

- No, I'm not coming out. - How are you?

- Hi, good to see you. - Stood up again.

- Fuck. Third one today. - Wouldn't be the last time, though.

- How's it going? - Good. You hungry?

Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. For sure.

Once I go to a place, like,

when I go back to your house, I won't use the navigation.

I'll know how to get there.

Assuming I'm ever invited over to see you again.

He had a photo with an English bulldog, I think, and that for me...

Yeah, that's... I mean, guys with dogs. That's a go-to obviously.

Thank you.

And he looked attractive, and he looked friendly,

and he had no shirtless selfies,

Well, I'm in a pretty prime position right now.

I mean, I'm 25...

Your biological clock is ticking. Let's be honest here.

- You should be... - You think so?

You should be pressuring me.

So that's a yes to marriage and kids? Not with me necessarily, but...

I don't like the fact that when I don't have a response...

Just shut up. You're fine.

She ran me over.

So what's the third date gonna be like?

It's still early. I'll take your silence as a yes.

Mm-hmm.

It's so refreshing to meet someone like Alexis,

where you can have that healthy banter going back and forth.

It's like we just click.

I tell you, as long as I'm asking you out, the date's on me.

She has a very unique personality.

A lot of the girls I've dated, they just don't have that.

- I love that. - Thank you.

And I see Snapchat videos popping up with him.