My Lecturer, My Husband

Inggit is married?

Yes, he’s the one with Rahayu.

He's Inggit's husband.

Why do you want to do this?

If you have a reason to refuse this arranged marriage,...

I have a reason to accept it.

I made you breakfast. Tempeh bacem and bacem tofu.

You still want to get an A, don't you?

I was going to be angry with you, you know.

If something's wrong, you can tell me.

What's wrong?

It's about Tristan.

I'm sorry, Arya.

I think he's old enough to take care of himself.

If I can give you my suggestion,...

maybe it's best that you focus on your mom.

She needs you a lot more right now.

Okay? That's my suggestion.

Hello?

Yes, good afternoon.

Listen. Regarding the learning materials,...

right now, I have family matters to take care of.

It might be a little late.

I'll try to be back on schedule next week. It should be fine.

I'm really sorry. Sorry.

Yes, I'll try. Yes. Okay. Thank you.

Mom, you're not resting?

Sit, Arya. I want to talk to you.

Inggit.

-Inggit. -Yes, Mom?

Come here, Inggit.

I think it's time for the two of you to go back to Jakarta.

No way, Mom. How can we leave you?

You've stayed with me long enough here.

I'm stronger now.

Mom.

I honestly don't mind staying here with you for a little longer.

The same with Inggit.

I'm sure that you need Inggit to be close to you.

Arya.

I know that you really care about me.

But I think it's time that we all get back to our own lives.

I'm sure that Inggit's dad agrees with me.

Okay? Go on home.

I'm okay.

=My Lecturer My Husband=

Tamarind Soup was your dad's favorite food.

Once he made me promise...

that I’d only cook with a happy heart.

So that our food would be delicious.

Yes, Dad really hate when he sees us sad or down.

I agree with him, Mom.

It's very important to remember something happy about someone.

Especially if it's about cooking.

Hopefully I can stay true to his words.

If I'm going to cook, I have to be happy.

Well, you're his favorite son-in-law.

Of course he is. He’s the only one.

Drink some water. You haven't had any all day.

-Thank you. -Why did you only get one?

Oh, right.

-Do you want me to help you? -No, it's fine.

-Come sit. -Right.

Thank you.

Mom.

What's that for? You're going to eat two?

It's for you.

-Enjoy your food. -Enjoy your food.

Honestly, I still don't have the heart to leave Mom here.

I think it's all right.

Let's just stay here. It's okay.

What about your work?

That's a piece of cake.

I can work on the learning material from here too.

All I need to do is send it. I can take care of it.

Or you can go back first. I'll stay here with Mom for a while.

Is that what you want?

Do you want me to go back to Jakarta or do you want me to stay here?

Stay here.

But I just feel bad because of your work.

Okay.

So, do you want us to go back or to stay here?

Let's just go back to Jakarta together.

Okay.

Are you sure?

I'm sure.

I just keep thinking about it because losing Dad must be rough for Mom.

Yes.

It's definitely rough for her.

Losing someone that we love is very rough.

Have you ever lost someone that you love?

Not yet.

Does "not yet" mean you will?

What else haven't I packed yet?

I think you haven't packed the soap yet. It's in the bathroom.

-Right. -Do you want me to help you?

No, it's fine.

You guys go ahead inside the house. I'll get the suitcase.

Inggit.

Tristan knows that you're married.

The others already know too.

-How did they know? -Well,...

Tristan went to Yogyakarta.

I didn't know.

He said that Mr. Arya saw him too.

Mr. Arya didn't tell you?

All right.

-I'll go home now, okay? -Thanks, Iim.

-Be careful on your way back. -I will.

Arya.

Arya.

Yes? Iim already left?

Did you know that Tristan came to Yogyakarta?

You saw Tristan?

Arya.

Arya.

You knew that Tristan came to Yogyakarta, right?

Yes, I know Tristan came to Yogyakarta. I saw him.

And I saw him quietly standing there. He stood there, looking at me.

Looking at you. Looking at your mom.

-You're just telling me now? -Not that I wanted to tell you now.

-I already knew... -When were you going to tell me?

-I asked you and you just answered me. -I was waiting for the right time.

When's the right time, Arya? I asked you and you just answered me.

-Inggit, listen. -Why didn't you tell me?

Your situation at that time didn't allow for me to tell you...

-How did you know my situation... -Because I could see that.

-I'm your husband, so I know. -All you did was see.

-Did you feel what I feel? -I know what I have to say.

-How did you know? -And when's the right time.

-How did you know? -And yesterday wasn't the right time.

And if he was doing the right thing...

How did you know it wasn't the right time?

Why didn't he meet you?

Did he came to you...

-and say he's sorry for your loss? -That's not my question, Arya.

I'm asking why you didn't tell me.

-That's it. -It's not I didn't want to tell you.

-So, why? -I already said I was waiting...

Now let's sit and talk.

Sit.

Sit.

-Why didn't you tell me? -Listen.

Why didn't I tell you right away when I saw him there?

Didn't tell you right away? Because I thought it wasn't right.

-That's what you thought. -Listen to me first. You were grieving.

-Yeah, but that's what you thought. -And I would have added another burden.

How would you know that if you told me you'd have added another burden for me?

How would you know?

-Did you ever discuss it with me? -No, my question now is this…

-I knew that you were worried... -When I went through all that...

He came there, he didn't meet you.

-Arya! -Whose problem is that? Ask him.

-Don't ask me. -Why should I ask him?

Right now, I'm asking you.

At that time, while I was going through all that,...

did you ever asked me how I felt?

Did you ever ask me to discuss it with you?

You never asked me!

You only say "I know what's best for you."

-"I know what's best for you." -I know what's best for you.

-So what's my purpose here? -And no matter what...

I'm your husband and I'm older than you.

So, my purpose here is just to follow what you want?

You're my husband, so I have to always listen to what you want?

You will never ask me how I feel?

Do you even care about how I feel?

Or do you actually only care about yourself?

I think I can decide that I want to meet Tristan right now.

And I won't ask for your permission.

It's up to you if you want to say "I'm your husband, Inggit".

Whatever. Because I’ve never felt that I was treated like your wife.

So, why should I ask for your permission?

Inggit.

-What are you doing? -I want to discuss my grades, sir.

I don't have any time. I'm busy.

You know where the door is, right?

Why are you getting angry?

I'm just giving my opinion that the bakwan...

starting from its texture, isn't crunchy enough.

And it's too salty. It's like a fake bakwan.

Then it suits you. A fake bakwan for a fake husband.

Instead of waiting for something unclear,...

just choose what's clear right in front of your eyes.

I know that my feelings might not be important to you.

You would never understand because you don't have a heart.

You don't need to try so hard to be a good husband to me.

You're my mom and dad's ideal son-in-law.

You don't need to go through the trouble of trying so hard to win my heart.

It's hard to change my mind.

Prof, good afternoon.

-Have you seen Tristan? -I haven't seen him.

Thank you.

-Have you seen Tristan? -Yeah?

I haven't seen him.

Dave. You're Dave, right?

-Yeah. Inggit. -Yeah, it's Inggit.

-You can just go ahead. -Okay. I’ll go.

Dave, do you know where Tristan is?

I called him but his phone isn't active.