Seeking Sister Wife - Fifth Season

We got a birthday girl here.

-Hi, cutie. -

- Yes. Yes. - Yes.

It's a lot of fun for having so many moms.

Adding more wives is part of our family vision.

And now that Danielle's been here for about two years,

we need to find her a wife too.

Just don't know I'm ready for that.

Good to see you.

I am bisexual.

And I am doing the dating for a wife for me.

-Are you sexually attracted to her? - She's gorgeous.

I'm really excited to meet her.

Did you talk about when she would be ready to meet me?

No. It hasn't come up.

Something is wrong here. They've been dating a few months.

And she doesn't want to meet me. But why?

Growing up we were raised as Muslims.

And polygamy is a part of Islam.

You got Muslims walking around with three or four wives.

I never liked it.

Naeem is my son. I love him dearly.

But this is a bit much.

We're dating a new girl.

So where's this girl from?

Brazil.

Oh, my gosh, Dannielle!

There comes these fears.

Are we rushing it, are we moving too fast?

Another girl from Brazil, huh?

Dude, you're crazy, man.

The definition of insanity

is doing the same thing over and over again,

expecting different results.

I mean, honestly, she seems like a really sweet person.

-Like... -They all seem sweet.

That's true.

I just think it's kinda crazy.

I mean, maybe I just have a bad taste in my mouth

because of Roberta, I'm not sure. But...

I definitely do see that history could repeat itself.

I feel like they just need to take some time,

collect their thoughts, specially Garrick.

Maybe you just get to know this person before you actually just...

maybe get into bed with them, like...

-Does she speak English? - Um...

She does not. Not very well.

-I mean, a little bit. -I'm sorry, I gotta laugh a little bit.

Wasn't that part of the problem with Roberta?

The language barrier and not fully understanding things between each other.

Don't you think?

You know, not really, I think...

that she might've had just a...

deceiving and...

trickery and, you know...

At the end, she was just using us for money, you know?

I think we were definitely a little more apprehensive

dating, you know, abroad again and...

Oh, yeah.

I think that was a challenge for us at first.

-Should we give her the benefit of the doubt? -Starting to get to know her.

- -Yeah, should we, like, actually...

-Is she lyin'? -...dive into this fully?

- She wanna scam us? -Yeah.

So, um...

-I swear, we're not stupid. -

So it's been four months of talking to her.

Did he meet her yet?

No, that's what we're planning to do.

We're planning to go to Mexico.

I mean, are you 100% for this all?

Like, you're right now dating, like, right now?

Honestly, if it was up to me, I would say, like, I'm feeling, like,

I'm not ready yet fully.

For me, it's like, it's hard to just, like,

I don't know. Hard to trust people again.

Yeah.

I think my mind and my heart are still fresh

off of what happened with Roberta. And I think...

I think part of Garrick is, you know, wanting to dive back in to kinda

move past that and take his mind off of that to some degree also.

But we, at the same time, we gotta be cautious and think it all through.

So are you gonna be smarter this next time

and maybe not send this other girl money?

She's not asking for money, is she?

No, she's not. So...

- No? -No.

So that's good.

Does she have a job?

She just graduated law school.

-Hopefully... -Yeah, but does she have a job?

- -No.

-No. - No job?

No. She's gotta start applying. Well...

I think might have already starting applying for...

You saying she did or you know she did?

I didn't ask her yet.

-So... - These are questions you gotta ask.

What if she's just after you helping her with money?

You got that, uh,

-stupid love look in your eyes, man. -

It's hard to think Garrick's doing this again.

I don't think I could do it, but...

Garrick's always been real forgiving, and...

I just think it's not a smart decision

to just jump in like he is.

I think it's important to get to know somebody.

Not just over the phone, you know.

Well, we're planning on at least going to meet her and her mom.

Just down in Mexico.

So are you paying for them to come to Mexico?

Yeah.

-Shh. You're already giving them money, bud. -

- - Shh.

I just hope, um, that you guys are smart about it this time.

Like, just maybe don't repeat the same thing, maybe try to...

I don't know, get to know her a little bit before you, like...

Propose?

-Or... Yeah. -

Why? Is he thinking about proposing?

Yes.

-Maybe. Maybe. - That's what...

That's what happened last time.

- -And it didn't work out.

We're not guarantee... Like, we honestly,

we're not guaranteeing that, like, he's gonna propose.

But, like, he made a ring.

-Without meeting her. -Yeah.

Okay. I gotta wrap my head around this a little bit.

I do...

Oh, my gosh. I do think that Garrick's moving too fast.

'Cause they barely-- Like, he wants to propose to her

and he hasn't even met her yet.

I think it's crazy. I think Garrick can be a little crazy sometimes.

Hopefully, everything works out. I can't lie.

I'm apprehensive about a lot of things too, Samantha. Like...

I know he's already feeling a love for her

and so I feel like when we go there, he's gonna want to propose.

Feels fast, but...

Especially since the last one was so devastating.

Yeah.

All that we went through

and, um, it is still so fresh, and like...

what if it's too soon?

What if we should wait, and...

we need more time to heal, and...

I feel like our heart-- My heart and Garrick's heart is still in a fragile spot.

I'm not trying to...

stomp on your parade or anything, but, like,

after everything with Roberta, you, my sister...

All the crying and...

pain you guys are going through, like...

I'm trying to look out for you.

I don't want to see it happen again.

I know. I know you...

If you hurt my sister again, I'm gonna have to bury you

-in a hole. -I didn't hurt her.

You're looking for these ladies, man.

You better make sure that they're the right one before you jump in.

You say you're gonna do it differently but you're not.

Shane is meeting Grace today.

Grace and I have been dating couple of months now.

She is the hair and makeup artist that I selected for our wedding.

Grace has been very hesitant to meet Shane, so...

it's kind of like a missing piece right now

in determining really where things go from here.

We'll see how everything goes.

-Oh, hi. - Hey.

-Good to see you. -Good to see you.

-Hi. -This is Shane.

-Hi. -How are you?

-Really nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you.

-I guess again, right? -Yeah, right?

-Um... -Not bad.

Since we kinda wet at our... Met at our wedding but I don't remember much.

-So... -Yeah, well...

It was a very blurry night.

That means it was a successful wedding.

Heck, yeah, it was.

So I've to tell ya, I'm a little nervous about this.

-This is kinda like meeting, like, the other I guess. -Oh.

-The other person in Ashley's life. -The other person.

- -So if I, uh,

if I'm a little hyper, that's why.

-Oh, okay. - But, uh, I'm happy that we're here.

My first impressions of Grace, I see her and I'm like,

I can see what Ashley is saying, that she is very attractive.

Yeah, so I just really wanted to take the time to know you a little bit.

I'm an open book. You can ask me whatever questions you want.

Uh, all right. Where was your first kiss?

-Oh, wow. All right. No... - No, I'm kidding.

-You don't have to answer that. -Okay.

-Mine was on a playground in, like... - That was a joke.

-...third grade or something. -Are you serious?

Mine was on a... a bus.

- Okay. -That was sixth grade.

-There you go. So about the same grade. -Mine was sixth grade too.

-Sixth grade? All right, all right. - Yeah.

There we go. Something in common.

And mine was with a woman.