90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Previously on Before The 90 Days...

I feel like I've entered this cute world.

You did all of this yourself.

Yeah, plus, like, a...

Can I use the toilet?

This is definitely gonna take some time to get used to.

I have irritable bowels.

But being here with Dempsey in person just feels right.

Mm.

Build the good memories

so that when you have disagreements,

you will tolerate them better.

What really matters is what your actions are after this meeting.

Is she really gonna fix what she's saying she's gonna fix?

Somebody has to put the fire down.

She needs to work that stuff out first before...

[Sheila speaking in other language]

Excuse me. Are you guys like celebrating something tonight?

Your birthday?

In past relationships,

my girlfriends have understood that I'm just like a friendly guy,

If this is how every single day

is to go, I'm just worrying whether we are compatible.

She's just squirming around, looking nervous.

I don't understand this.

This is a major red flag for me.

You know what? You don't wanna...

I went back to see if you were on the app.

You're not my boss.

-Do not talk down to me. -I don't talk with you.

We stop now, okay?

Okay, beat it. Bye.

Bye! Bye!

I'm done.

[Sheila speaking in other language]

[translator speaking in other language]

[David speaking sign language]

So sorry for what happened.

[translator speaking in English]

[Sheila speaking in other language]

It's my responsibility to

spend the night by my mom's casket.

Bye-bye.

That really feels...

Uh, David, he has to help me.

And he respect me...

that I want to be alone.

- This mall is so big. - Yes, it is.

But I know where we're going.

I'm very familiar with this mall here.

After the session with our therapist yesterday,

I'm feeling good. I'm glad we went

because I think it was productive overall.

- Smells good. - Right?

Of course I still have concerns about

the amount of arguing,

but I think Jasmine and I need to focus on

creating good memories together so we can

improve our relationship,

you know, while I'm here in Panama.

This is where we're going.

[both speaking in other language]

Today is my little sister's Liz's 20th birthday.

And since she has been living with Gino and I for these two weeks,

that poor thing had been dealing with all the crap

that's going on between Gino and I.

So, Gino agreed on getting her something special.

[Jasmine speaking in other language]

I'm gonna take this one.

It's very beautiful.

Okay.

Um...

Okay.

So, since I'm already here...

You already have a ring.

No, I lost it.

I don't really believe that

that she lost the engagement ring.

That's what I did.

I accidentally lost it.

That's a good question.

- -Did you like the ring that I bought you?

It's meaningful,

but it's not a ring that I would ever buy it for me.

Or for any other person.

He promised to upgrade the ring.

That never happened.

So, even before I lost the ring,

sometimes I was wearing the previous...

That was nicer.

That's... that's terrible,

that you're wearing a ring from your previous marriage, I mean...

But in my mind, it's not like,

"Oh, this represents me being engaged to my ex."

I'm even divorced. I don't care about him.

That's like me wearing like, a necklace that my ex gave me

-or something. -What necklace?

Wearing a necklace that she gave me.

How would you feel if I did that?

She gave you a necklace?

No, I'm saying how would you feel?

-if I... -Do you have a necklace?

Stop comparing everything.

I'm just asking how you'd feel.

You were being cheap about replacing it.

You were not giving me a new one.

So I found a solution.

Oh, my God.

Babe, you don't need a ring now.

What?

I do need a ring because I don't have a ring.

It's Liz's birthday. We should be focusing on that.

I am. I already have a gift.

What's the matter?

What? I told you I'd buy you a ring

after visa approval

And, uh, before our wedding, not now.

Do you know, talking about wedding

and all this K-1 process,

don't use that as an excuse

because we've been waiting for 12 months.

Like, why is it taking forever?

Okay.

Immigration says within 13 months.

Eighty percent of cases are resolved.

We're not there at 13 months yet.

But I don't wanna wait 13 months.

I do believe that...

No. No! I don't need a lawyer.

Because I have waited a lot.

We haven't hit the timing yet.

-That's why. -Forget about it.

-Timing? 12 months is more than enough. -Tell you what.

You give me the money for the lawyer,

-and I'll get one. How does that sound? -I knew that it was

all about the money.

-It is about the money. -You don't want...

I'm not gonna waste money.

-Do you waste money? -So am I a waste of money?

It just frustrates me that Jasmine

even thinks I need an immigration attorney.

My ex-wife is from Brazil

and I brought her here to the US on a K-1 visa.

I had no trouble doing it.

So, I know I can do this myself.

Yeah, I feel like Jasmine's kinda manipulating me

by trying to convince me to buy her a ring right now.

And you know, it's...

It's not what I came here for.

What you should be doing is spending money

on a lawyer to get me to the United States

-as soon as possible. -No.

You do not tell me what to do.

I'm the one that did all the paperwork.

I'm the one that took hours

figuring out how to fill everything out.

I'm the one that did everything.

I know what's going on. You're clueless.

-Why you have to be-- -You have no clue what's going on.

Why you have to be a jerk every time?

You better change your attitude because

we're gonna have some huge problems coming up.

-But I have-- -Change your attitude.

I have an attitude because--

I'm not ready to buy it. I'm not ready to buy a ring today.

You can buy it yourself.

What a jerk.

This is the she pulls all the time.

That's crazy.

He knows that this K-1 visa

topic is super sensitive to me.

Twelve months for me waiting living in the limbo.

And it's shatters my heart to know

that you know he's not going to spend any money that he has

on something as important as

paying for an immigration lawyer,

to try to accelerate the process of me

getting a K-1 visa,

and finally being together.

I'm sick and tired of trying my best.

And I am sick and tired of that jerk.

I feel like I mean nothing to him.

-Did you sleep well? -Uh...

Yeah.

Not used to this kinda cold.

Last night was freezing.

Being cold is my version of hell.

I wanna take a shower,

but I can't just, like, hop in and shower.

It doesn't have hot water.

Gotta take a dump at some point.

What the hell? Where am I supposed to go?

I don't know. I feel like I might be in over my head here.