90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

Previously on Before The 90 Days.

- Oh, oh, oh. Shoot. Ahhh! - Oh!

-So far, so good. -What?

This is amazing.

This is why I'm here.

For her. For these moments.

And I hope that she will start being open and honest with me.

When we have a fight,

you text my father bad things about me.

Do you regret it? That's all I wanna know.

Even though my family is not religious as I am,

they believe very strongly in tradition.

Let's do it.

Once I explain to them who who is Meisha,

things will start to fall down.

I want you to speak in Arabic so your mother can understand.

[interpreter speaking other language]

If I don't want a baby, will you stay with me?

And still marry me? And be happy?

I told you, I want a child.

-How am I supposed to be happy? -So, you want.

I don't really know if I will ever...

...and that's the part that really scares me.

I thought we were on the same page with this.

We're clearly not.

I've done your relationship chart.

I would say, for Christian, you lack, like, sensitivity.

You may see each other as an enemy.

If things are to not work out between us...

Razvan and I had a fight last night.

I don't know. Did I get into a relationship too quickly?

Does Razvan know how to be with someone who's a widowed mom?

Oh. So, like...

I am feeling really concerned

about some of the things that came up.

I feel that there's still a lot of work for Christian and I

to do in order for us to get back to where we were

before all these issues.

Is this it?

Oh, yeah. It looks like it's still a costume shop.

Both Christian and I are really into movies and, um, you know, comics...

So, today I just wanted to do something fun and try to reconnect as a couple.

Okay, here we are.

-Good afternoon there, guys. -Hello, hello.

-How are we doing today? -Pretty darn good.

I love places like this.

So you guys go and have a browse,

and when you're ready, you just come give me a shout and I'll give you a hand.

-That sounds good. -Sounds great.

It is amazing 'cause there's like, so many options.

I really want to have a fun time with Cleo

because for the past few days, you know, we've been on shaky ground.

Ooh!

Hey, I like this one.

Despite our differences, I still want things to work out

and I still think it's possible.

All right, what I figure is,

you'll be looking for like, flappers girl

and then I'll find, like a 20's, like, gangster suit.

Yeah.

Yeah, let's go for that.

We're looking for a 1920's gangster look

and here's my floozy here.

What does floozy mean?

Floozy, it's kind of like, uh,

I think it's like, skank.

Oh.

I am going to find you a shirt.

So actually, let's just do a couple of measurements for you as well.

I'm just gonna come around your neck here.

-Oh, my goodness. You have got an incredibly tiny neck. -Oh!

That's insane. You probably have one of the smallest necks,

-I've ever fitted on a man. -

My Adam's apple is

twice as large as his.

-Jesus. All right. -Well, most people's neck size is about 15-inches.

You've got a 14-inch collar.

Oh, wow! Yes, hello. Mmm.

You have a very skinny neck. Hmm.

-It's very, very small. - Great.

Skinniest neck of a man I've ever seen. Wow.

Were you sick a lot as a child?

-Did he tell you, you were sick a lot as a child? - No.

Okay.

All right, you ready for the big reveal, babe?

-Let's do it. -Stepping out.

-Wow. -Oh!

You look great.

Yeah, you look pretty good too.

Yeah, give me a little spin here.

-Okay. -Take a look at it.

Top to tail.

-There you go. -We just need to go out flapping.

-You do a little thing. Do a little thing with it. -Yeah.

I don't know. How do they dance? Like that?

Left, right, right, left.

Right, do, do.

Yeah, cool. Uh, should we try another costume?

Just suck in your guts.

Everyone from pre-history just didn't breathe. That's how it works.

Your crown.

There we go. Look at that!

Okay, come on out.

Wow!

You look regal.

Thank you, yeah.

-I do feel that. -That's hot.

Show me some, like, knight action.

Love it.

Well, uh, you know what? Now is the time that I'd like to give you something.

Can you hold my shield for just one moment?

-Of course. -Cool.

- Oh, my God, sorry. -Yeah.

So... I actually did buy something for you.

Yesterday evening.

-Okay. -It's something kind of precious...

-and cool. -All right.

Oh, wow!

Oh, you didn't have to.

It's so nice.

I wanted to show you something, like, a physical thing

to represent, you know, my love for you.

Did you just say, your love for me?

Yeah. Yeah, I did.

I want to keep working on us.

Uh, I want you to know, like, I'm serious and...

-For real? -Yeah.

Be careful.

Thank you.

Well, would you like to try it on?

-Of course. -All right, great.

Just feeling really happy right now.

Despite having had some rough days with Christian,

I know that he's just, you know, a goofy boy

who, you know, might make mistakes but has a good heart.

And he just really sees me for who I am.

So, I really want this to work.

I just hope that our relationship

is moving towards a next step of, you know,

being truly committed to each other

and that we get there before he leaves.

I really appreciate that. It means a lot to me.

-Maybe you should tell Andy. -You tell him.

I have no idea what's happening with Nicola right now.

I'm sitting here in this room and feeling so incredibly uncomfortable.

We're supposed to having this big reveal to his family

about who I am and our plans for the future.

And all of the sudden, Nicola is completely chickening out.

He is far away from me on the couch.

There is absolutely no emotion towards me.

Is he ashamed to tell them that I am his girlfriend?

Because, if so, this is going to be a huge problem.

Just tell them.

She put a post about Jesus

and I was correcting here there.

And then I add her to Facebook and we start to speak.

And three years and half or four years

we start to speak on the phone, almost every day.

Yeah, and, uh, our relationship

developed for a romance relationship.

Like, I love you. She loves me.

And the main purpose that Meisha came

from Minnesota to the Holy Land

is to spend time together and we can know each other more.

And hopefully, in the next few days, that we can also get engaged.

-Wow. -Wow.

-Engaged? - Yeah.

Wow!

-I don't believe it. -Mickey or Andy, tell your mom.

She's very happy.

- Aw! Your mommy. -Yeah, she happy with her.

Aw! Oh! Nadia.

Tell your mom, thank you for that.

Yes.

So...

In the United States.

-You will come to America. - You'll come?

-Yeah! -

Yeah.

When my mom hears that I want propose to Meisha,

she... I think she felt emotional. She started to cry

because it's her dream in life that me will get married.

I feel very happy.

But I know when I start to explain that Meisha have two kids,

she is divorced, not a virgin,

I worry how they will accept her.

I have to tell you something else.

Meisha, she's a Catholic.

Before she was a Catholic, she didn't know God.

And when she was young, she was married.

She have two daughters.