EXIT (엑시트)

It's fascinating with people who don't care about money.

There's people who don't have money.

For those who have enough, it's a easy. It's a tough business.

It's hard sometimes. Many people do not make it.

Don't ever underestimate capital, energy and inferiority complex.

Adam? - Can we make it 6 o'clock?

Wife and kids are gone and I'm thirsty.

Five is also good for me. Is it just us?

You saw anyone? - No, it'll have to be William then.

He was wake yesterday, so full of morphine I was almost jealous.

See you at 5 then. - Looking forward.

Hi, going to work? - Yes.

Thanks!

Is it ok if I go out tonight?

With who? - With Rebecka.

Again? Don't you get bored? - Why would I?

She's not the most interesting person...

By the way, I'm having dinner with Jeppe and the guys.

I got a new car. - Another? What car?

Porsche.

Yours is still new. - It's 9 months old.

I booked the latest one, it'll be out in two weeks.

Ok. - There's a letter for you.

What letter?

We bought a 250 square meters apartment... my God!

That's where we enjoy ourselves, you know... our sanctuary.

Have you talked to Henrik? Great guy! We enjoy ourselves there.

Put it in her mouth!

We can be ourselves there, forget about monotony.

You know you exist... it's fun.

You rang? - Can someone change this?

She's coming around, just a bit more patience.

Like 5 or 10 minutes? - Something like that. Is it ok?

Alright.

WHERE ARE YOU? -

I got mad at him about stupid things, 'cause I felt empty...

I just thought it was not fair.

Now I know we're both alright and we can keep trying.

You told him how you felt? - Yes.

Did you? Didn't he say it was your fault? That it was all in your mind?

He knows what I've been through. - But you didn't tell him yourself.

No, it's not easy to discuss feelings with Adam.

Adam is the son of a diplomat. When he was 7, he was sent to boarding school.

In that house, they hardly talked to each other.

From 7 to 16, he could see his father maybe one month a year.

In the summer, they worked so much they didn't have time for their son.

At least his father was working... his mother was a sort of... hostess.

How did he feel about that?

He always says one should get a certificate before having kids.

When he was 13, he refused to go home even if they wanted him to.

Did you tell him you're coming here?

This is not his problem. - "Problem"?

Listen...

I know it all sounds strange to you.

You probably have a worse picture of him than he actually is.

Where is he now? - He's with his buddies.

Did he ask if it was ok with you? - Why would he do that?

Because you always ask him before doing anything yourself.

Ok... I know this is your job...

...but you don't have to go look for problems where there aren't any.

You've reached Hermine Veile. I can't pick up right now...

Take a look at this.

When is the wedding again? - In 4 weeks.

It doesn't make sense, it's just sad.

They already have 4 kids, this is the last draw!

They're gonna wake up the next day and feel completely empty!

Get married not to drift apart... they'll be divorced in one year!

Let's not talk about it now. - Hello!

Hey! - I hear you!

Sorry I'm late...I've been through hell.

Tomine is dead tired all the time!

She's working from 8am to 3,30pm and she's so tired she can't pick up a tissue from the floor!

Now she's waiting for the au pair. The kids have started too.

I try to keep the house clean. When I tell them to go clean their rooms...

...you know what they say? "Then Jintapaa won't have anything to do".

My daughter is only 8! What will it be like when she's 15?

Who's Jintapaa? - She's good. She's a lesbian.

Her other name is Moy. She looks like she's been hit in the face with a shovel.

Who you think I hire? - Lesbians.

You don't have to specify your sexual orientation, which is strange.

There's so much shit they need to know. - But who watches the kids?

The "au pairs" do... no, I'm being unfair... Tomine does it.

For the most part. I represent 10% of the whole thing.

I applied for an au pair once. - Why?

Everyone said it's so convenient. I filled all the forms...

...then I got rejected 'cause I have no kids.

They're not just here to watch kids, it's also a social-cultural thing.

If they work for more than 25 hours, they cry "exploitation!"

But work for someone with no kids? No thanks! That's our country's apartheid!

You have all my sympathy. - That won't last long.

What does your lady do? - She's at the head of the district committee.

Pay her the same to stay home. - We no longer discuss that.

You're drinking a 2012 Grand Cru. Robert Parker gave it 100 points.

Good, you got more? - A lot but you drink it like water.

What is she working for?

It's unbelievable how much she works. But how does she get home then?

They're always doing something. - Like what?

Fixing the nails, the hair... - Training, so they're always fit.

You don't need to train if you work. - They train to be good-looking.

It's not about lifting weights. That doesn't help.

What do you mean?

It's ok if she wants to stay fit, I don't get mad about it.

Women need a lot of maintenance and it gets worse every year.

They need to compensate aging to keep a certain dignity.

But why the hell go to work? Let's just give them a shop to run.

That's a good idea! Hire someone and go look for clothes for their shop.

If it goes wrong, you write it off and they can always do charity.

They can do that... or some crusade for elephants on Facebook.

What Jeppe is trying to say is... - Now I'm really excited!

...is that let her live out of your money will save you a lot of trouble.

"You're going out again? Sorry but only one makes money here".

"Sometimes I have to do inconvenient stuff". They rarely ask again, don't you agree?

Absolutely.

She wants you to make money, even if she realizes it's all bullshit.

They'll take any bullshit rather than losing their high standard of living.

Thanks to that, you're scot free.

I'm learning a lot here, thank you!

We give you the best tips money can buy and that doesn't come free.

"Your man gives you a child role where he sets the rules".

"He's often jealous and controlling".

"He has his own idea of the relationship and you must fit in".

"He wants to know where you are all the time".

"He uses money as a mean to control you".

"He says things he knows will hurt you to make you feel smaller".

"He acts like he's the only one who can fix whatever problem".

"He blames you for things you're not guilty of."

Do you know what this was? - No.

It's called the "Waltz-Rushe-Gottman checklist".

It defines whether you are in a psychologically overarching relationship.

So?

What do you think of that?

I think we talked enough for today.

What I've just read to you...

...is the portrait of a sociopath.

Why are you still married? Since this is the topic tonight...

If I had no kids, if I was like you...

As my therapist said, it would have been a mercy killing. You'd be so much better.

You'd get your life back.

You think she's cheating on you? - No.

There! Who's fucking Hermine right now?

No... shall we talk about you and that spreadsheet you're marrying?!

Not once you got out from home without bitching about how hard it was!

You know why? 'Cause she's jealous.

That's because I've been a pig... I've been a pig 90% of the times.

I've always been. Look how we live, look at the pool, the car...