Marry Me or Not (必娶女人 / Bi Qu Nv Ren)

I don't really despise marriage,

It's just that as I continue to live,

The more I realize that,

a lot of people, having been in love for many years,

even those, after having been married for many years,

will all start to forget the first time they met each other,

and how their hearts fluttered for the first time.

Actually, it's not that I don't believe in love.

It's just that I always try to...

want to find...

the first time my heart fluttered.

Actually, the person who made my heart flutter...

never knew that in the time that I followed her

I kept at looking at her back

Cai Huan Zhen!

Alright then. We'll continue with the wedding.

Shu Hong, let's continue.

Wait a moment!

Huan Huan.

Tell me truthfully...

were all of those people really your ex-boyfriends?

So, you've lied to me all this time.

How many times have you really lied to me?

Why aren't you answering me?

If our relationship is based on so many lies, how are we supposed to get married? How are we supposed to spend the rest of our lives together?

Shu Hong, you can't get married! You can't get married to this woman.

Yes, you can't marry her! Our Li family also has a reputation to uphold.

- I really can't tell! - Third Aunt! Sixth Grandma!

Your words are foul.

I haven't even complained about your son and yet, you dare to complain about my daughter?

My daughter? My daughter?

Why did you keep so much from me? Tell me!

My daughter! My daughter! My daughter!

Let's not argue.

Why don't you answer me?

Please stop arguing.

- Answer me! Tell me! - Stop arguing.

How many times have you really lied to me?

Stop arguing!

STOP ARGUING!

What debauchery?

Non-commitment? Don't know indecency?

None of you have the right to talk about me that way.

You - your husband beside you, was he your first love?

What are you so unhappy about?

Was she your first girlfriend?

This society's standards are unfair.

When a man has loved many women, it is called experience.

When a woman has loved many men before, she's considered to be non-committal.

Yes.

I have been in love many times before. So what?

Which one of you can stand up and tell me...

a woman who's been in love many times before is wrong, is doing something illegal?

I do not feel sorry to anyone.

Every time I was in love, I was always committed.

I gave my all in every single relationship.

After every break-up,

I would always tell myself: The mistakes you've made this time around, let's not repeat them.

I've liked the wrong person this time.

Don't do that again.

Every single time, I would control my feelings. I would try to improve myself.

I wouldn't just randomly love someone because I am lonely.

Where am I wrong?

One woman - if she hasn't used her heart and dated a few times,

and experienced heartbreak a few times - won't know who she really wants.

Those ex-boyfriends,

shouldn't represent the idea that I'm a non-committal woman.

It just means that I've failed at love.

Even if it is like this,

even if there will be many ups and downs when I'm in love,

I always work hard.

I always believe that, in the end,

I will find true happiness.

Do you remember what you said to me,

when you proposed?

You said...

it doesn't matter what happens...

you'll always hold onto my hand.

You will always remember...

the first time you saw me, the first time you heart fluttered.

You said that,

in your heart, I was the woman you must marry.

I said you were the world's greatest man. I wasn't lying to you.

At that time, I really believed that to be true.

But now...

I just want to say...

This marriage—

I won't continue.

Cai Huan Zhen!

What's going on now?

Listen well.

Today, it wasn't Li Shu Hong who canceled the wedding.

I am going to escape this marriage with this man.

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Let me tell you, your actions has threatened

a person's rights. I can sue you.

Strange.

If you get out of the car, I will commit suicide.

Everyone saw us leave together.

If I use my blood and write the word "Justin"...

I wonder what everyone will think about.

I wonder if the police would think that because you were harassing me before, and I couldn't take it anymore.

And I could tell from before that the police really hates you.

Driver, drive the car.

Where are you going?

Where are we going?

Miss...

I don't know what happened during your wedding.

I also don't know what reason you have to leave your own wedding.

But, I hope you can, peacefully...

happily, calmly...

and think precisely about...

the fact that everything that's happened so far, is unrelated to me.

Who said it wasn't related to you?

Don't you remember what I told you to tell Hao Sheng Nan?

I said, as long as she ruined my happiness,

I would fight back against her and make sure she lost everything.

Since you're her boyfriend,

then I'll start with you!

You've really misunderstood the situation.

I think you've really misunderstood the situation.

Sheng Nan

Hey. Hey.

Hao Sheng Nan. Listen to me well.

I won't forgive you either.

I've had enough.

Let me tell you...

even if Hao Sheng Nan wasn't there, you wouldn't have had a happy marriage.

You said you sacrificed a lot for your wedding.

But, in reality, you did it willingly.

To prove that you two will be happy after getting married.

To prove that after getting married, you will be able to be together for a lifetime!

Let me tell you, you're wrong!

Because in this world, there are many couples who end up hurting each other so much, that they might as well kill each other!

Even when they are arguing, they need to pass notes to do so.

They don't need to say a single word to the other person.

If I was you, I wouldn't cry. I would celebrate.

I would celebrate the fact that I wouldn't have to pay lawyers lots of money in the future.

To get rid of this happiness you thought you would get, but, instead, turned into a very unhappy wedding.

Don't think that I'll be scared of you just because you're crying.

I bought some tissues for you.

And mineral water,

foundation powder, lipstick, and some other supplies.

If you saved your tears,

I think that you can cry until tomorrow afternoon.

If there is nothing else, I will leave.

Hi. I'm Justin.

I will give you 30 seconds to tell me why you called me.

Then I will start to charge you.

This is the reception desk, looking for Miss Cai Huan Zhen.

Cai Huan Zhen?

Looking for me?

- Hello? - Miss, you have to leave the room at 11am.

Ah, I understand.

Why do we have to leave the room?

Good morning.

Good morning.

Did you sleep well last night?

I slept very well.

Me too.

Then that's good.

Excuse me.

that's my bra.

Oh.

How could this happen?

No. I must find a way to settle this.

I called someone to come take care of the room. Let's eat breakfast together.

Ah, right.

I told the caretaker to come and bring some clothes. They're on the bed.

Your wedding dress has also been packed up.

Thank you. You're so caring.

This is something I should be doing.

Don't worry about last night.

I'm not someone who doesn't understand the situation.

Because I was feeling heartbroken that Shen Nan had ruined my wedding, I clung on to you.

Even though I don't know how we got into this situation...

I won't blame you.

After we finish, I will take you home.

If Shen Nan didn't come and ruin my wedding...

then, at this time,