90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days

I'm leaving for Tunisia to meet the man of my dreams.

Baby, I will see you in a week.

I'll see you soon.

I converted to islam 6 months ago.

Omar is a very strict Muslim from Syria.

This time tomorrow, this gon' be on Maria's finger.

I finally found the one woman

that I've been searching for all my life.

Jennifer is a really hot model and a really good mom.

You're talking marriage with some person you've never met.

I virtually met her.

But where do Chloe and I fit into that?

Akini has never dated a white guy.

Oh, he's super sexy. I love those eyes.

It's time to go to england to meet my James Bond.

I'm ready to open my heart again.

What you up to, handsome?

That's flirtatious, not so, like, desperate.

Every time I get a paycheck, I send her money.

Over the years, I've sent $40,000.

You know how upset you got me all day?

I filed for the k-1 visa, but we still have trust issues.

So I'm going back to Nigeria.

This is why we have problems.

I'm so nervous.

I send a lot of pictures with filters.

I'm terrified that when he sees me, it's gonna be like,

"you're not what I thought you were."

Oh, my god.

Let's do this.

If I go down there and we don't have chemistry,

my heart would be broken.

I'm risking it all

because I want this so bad.

So, he expects you to have him a baby.

My biggest fear is Tom's a Jesse in disguise.

Is that an American thing?

I need to talk to you about something.

I have no idea what zied is gonna do when he finds out.

What if his nice personality, he's just putting it on

for a couple of days 'cause that's all it takes?

It's not fair, people always questioning our love.

I don't know why you care.

I don't want you anymore.

That dinner felt like a damn nightmare.

I just don't want to do this anymore.

That's it. You know, this is bull.

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Alright. I know he's in here.

I know he's cheating.

Look. There it is.

There he is.

We are busting him.

My name is Rebecca.

I'm 47 years old, and I'm a private investigator.

I love busting the cheaters.

Alright.

My favorite part of being a private investigator

is putting gpss on cars.

You know, it's just an adrenaline rush.

Show time, baby.

I'm so excited.

I live on my own.

When I'm not working, I'm spending time

with my family.

I have three grown children, and I have grandkids.

Bring me chocolate milk.

Aww, I love you.

Love you.

Blow her a kiss.

Be sweet to mommy.

I'm super close to my family,

but when it comes to relationships,

it hasn't worked out very well for me.

I fall hard, and I fall quick,

and then it doesn't last.

I was perfectly happy just being alone.

Unfortunately, that's not how it worked out.

My boyfriend's name is zied.

We met on Facebook.

I saw zied's picture pop up in the "people you may know,"

and I thought, "oh, my god. He is gorgeous."

Sent him a friend request,

but turns out he lives in Tunisia,

and I was like, "you have got to be kidding me,"

but that did not stop me from wanting to know more about him.

One of the first things that I asked him was,

"how old are you?"

He did say he was 26, and I said, "oh, that's too bad.

I'm 47," but he's very sweet and romantic,

and even though we haven't met, I fell in love.

I couldn't help it.

If you could see our messages, there are so many emojis.

Like, he's just the most romantic, sweet person

in the world.

I'm always sending him funny filters.

Oh, that's not attractive.

The one that I use the most is the one

that just makes me look prettier.

It smoothes out my skin a little bit.

But it's funny to send him these.

That one's cute.

Baby, I will see you in a week.

I'll see you soon.

He has the most beautiful green eyes

I've ever seen in my life,

and he has prettier lips than I do.

He has beautiful lips.

I can't wait to finally kiss them

when we meet in person.

I feel like a little school girl.

Everything about him is perfect.

He's amazing.

That's why I love him.

Sorry.

I can tell he means it.

And he makes me happy, and I deserve it.

In just a few days, I'm leaving for Tunisia

to meet the man of my dreams for the first time.

The whole thing is crazy, but I can't help it,

and I hope to leave Tunisia engaged.

Are you nervous about the flight?

So, the flight is 15 hours.

15 hours?

Yeah, I'm gonna be fine. I promise.

I mean, I know you're worried,

but, at this point, there is no way I'm not going.

Okay, this is the second time now

that you're getting involved with a foreign man.

Yeah.

What makes it different this time?

I've been married three times,

and the first two were average run-of-the-mill American men,

and then a couple years ago,

I met my ex on Facebook, and he was from Morocco.

We ended up getting married in Morocco,

and I brought him over here on the spousal visa,

but it was within 3 or 4 months that I saw another side of him.

Because I'm a private investigator,

I started realizing that there was something going on,

and I placed a GPS tracker on his car,

and I found out that he was cheating on me with other women.

I helped put your life back together last time.

I don't want to see you get hurt again.

You know, I make it seem like I'm not worried,

but I have given it a lot of thought.

I'm just worried that she doesn't really know this guy

like she thinks she knows this guy.

I've already seen what she went through with her ex.

When she realized what her ex was doing,

things did not end well there.

Have you done a background check on this guy?

I haven't done, like, one that we can do through the agency.

With the work that we do

and the crazies that we see out there...

I don't know how to do an international background check,

but every single thing that I could possibly find about him,

I have looked for.

I feel like if there was something going on,

I would know it.

Okay, look. Before you leave,

I'm getting all of his information.

I'm running the background check,

and let's pray and hope that it's good because,

at that point, you're there, girl,

and there's gonna be no turning back.

I have not seen a single red flag with zied,

but it's so easy on the Internet to be a certain way.

You know, I've already been through this.

I've told my children, "I know I've done this before,

but trust me, it's different this time,"

and what if it's not?

My name is Caesar.

I'm 46 years old, and I live in Jacksonville, north Carolina.

My typical day is getting up, getting ready for work.

I've got my job. I'm working hard.

I'm stressed out, and so before I leave the house,

I usually like to meditate.

After I meditate, I ride my bike to work.

10, 15 minutes later, the action starts right

when I walk through the door.

It's nonstop.

Hey. Hey, Caesar.

Hey. How you doing?

Wendy, how you doing?

What's going on?

I've been working as a nail technician for 15 years,

and I love it.

That is awesome. That is nice.

It's a great job.

You get to meet new people, make them look beautiful.

Go ahead and take a look at the menu.

I come to aloha nails about twice a month,

and Caesar does a really good job.

He always puts his heart into his work.

People request him all the time.

When I tell people I do nails, they're pretty surprised.

I learned to do nails from my ex-girlfriend.

She was my high school sweetheart.

We dated for 13 years,