Marry Me or Not (必娶女人 / Bi Qu Nv Ren)

Sometimes, I believe romance is like

running a marathon.

At the beginning, you feel relaxed

and confidently move forward.

You will tell yourself that this time, you can make it to the end.

But as you run,

you will encounter an especially unbearable section.

You will believe your stamina is not strong enough, and feel out of breath,

unable to take in any air.

You will feel more and more tired and slow down.

You will want to give up, and tell yourself

giving up is easier than this moment.

Especially when you see your opponent's back leaving you farther and farther behind.

"Giving up" these two words will appear directly in front of you,

but at the very end you will force yourself

to clench your teeth and persevere until the end.

Because you know,

the reason you're running this marathon isn't to take it easy but because

you know

there is something you want waiting for you.

You know, that even if you can't see it,

it is waiting right there waiting for you.

The reason that forces you to keep persevering

towards the finish line is called "happiness."

Did you wait long?

Not at all.

- Do you have any plans tonight? - Tonight...

I originally planned to meet with my friends, but since I realized that this is the first weekend we've been together, so...

I canceled it.

Why did you cancel it? If you already scheduled something today, I could accompany you.

Huh?

Are you certain?

There will only be boys. If you go, you will think it is very boring.

Why would it be boring?

Participating in my boyfriend's gathering with his friends is the most fun!

I can see what type of people your friends are

and I might even hear some gossip relating to you.

Okay.

If you won't think it's boring, then let's go.

Let's go.

Hey, do you know how to play billiards?

Only a bit...

You've never lost to me!

You lost to Zhang Qian Yao!

Do you even know what type of person the guy you like is?

Senior...

is he really that type of person?

Miss, are you all right?

How do you drive a car?

Hao Sheng Nan?

There's no need. I will be fine after I rest for a moment. It's not that serious.

There is, let's go.

If you keep pressing like that, the elevator won't come any faster.

Didn't you promise me that you won't run when you see me?

But now, so many things have happened...

How would I have the humility to ask Senior?

"How to Combat Bad Men."

"If you are too serious and focused..."

"then you lose for sure."

"The person who cares more..."

"will always be hurt more."

"The first time you meet..."

"bad men will give you a certain feeling."

What feeling?

A...

heart racing type of feeling.

How "heart racing?"

Just...

Teaching you how to recognize the lies of bad men...

Did you meet any bad guys lately?

Miss, you haven't checked out yet.

Sorry, she's my girlfriend.

We just fought, so she forgot to check out her items.

Sorry for inconveniencing you.

Let's go.

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You should know that I was helping you,

and not trying to make a pass at you.

Yes.

And, I'm holding your hand right now,

because I'm scared that if I let go

you will leave me.

So, can I keep holding your hand?

Yes, o-okay.

Do you have time now? We can find a place to sit.

There are some things I want to tell you.

She really knows how to play.

Mhm.

How about it? Do you want to play a round with me?

Amongst our friend group...

I think Cui Da Zui is most fit to play.

Let's first discuss what we're betting on...

It's up to you whether you want the small numbers (1-7) or big numbers (9-15) or if you just want hit any ball.

The loser pays for the drinks and treats us to dinner.

Do I really have to play her?

For real?

- For real. - For real.

Brother, your chick, oh no...

your girlfriend is really not bad.

Really? This doesn't sound like what you would normally say.

Why are you so surprised? Even though,

I never seen the type of girlfriends you've had in the past...

the fact that you're willing to bring her out to meet us, is proof that

she is different from other women. Look, she's smart,

beautiful, and graceful.

And she's cool.

She's willing to meet with your friends and identify herself as one of us.

If you bring this type of girlfriend out, it makes you look favorable.

No wonder you spent so much energy trying to hold onto her.

I'm telling you.

At that time, when Jiang Qian Yao approached you, it was only for a practical joke.

I thought that he was just saying things

but who knew he would really use such methods to get closer to you?

Just for some basketball shoes!

How come you're not eating? You don't like it?

Senior...

Can you truthfully tell me

in your heart, the fact that I like you...

Is it...

Is it what?

Just a practical joke? You got closer to me and made me like you

just to use me?

At the beginning...

Senior, you got to know me

is it because your basketball hit me?

There's no other reason?

What other reason could there be?

No reason.

I must have made a mistake.

There's no way you're the type of person she described.

She?

Who told you something?

Nothing.

No one said anything to me.

Senior, I have one last question.

What type of relationship do you have with Cai Huan Zhen?

Do you like her?

To me, Cai Huan Zhen is only a business partner. Other than that,

I have no other opinion of her.

Then that's good.

Senior, thanks for telling me these things

because I'm always worried that my feelings

will cause complications for you.

Sheng Nan, you've never been a "complication" to me.

Sorry,

from the beginning, I should have told you what I thought of you.

Being liked by you

actually makes me very happy.

What I mean is, when I first met you,

I thought you made others around you happy.

If there were more time,

I would have really fallen for you.

It's just that I graduated not long after I got to know you.

But these emotions

were very special to me.

Very... special?

What do you mean?

Are you willing to give me a chance to get to know you?

And let us start from being friends?

From being friends?

Before, I regretted not having the chance to get to know you better

so, I hope we can start from the beginning

and seriously get to know each other.

If you're not willing, then pretend I hadn't said anything.

No, no. Of course I'm willing.

Hi, I'm Hao Sheng Nan. I'm 28 this year,

I am Five Happiness Travel's Japan Assistant Manager. Delighted to get to know you.

I thought what you meant by "starting off as friends"

is from a personal introduction.

Sorry, what am I thinking?

I'm Jian Qian Yao. I'm 31 this year.

I am currently Shi Dai Group's Deputy Manager. It's a pleasure to meet you, Miss Hao.

Why are you staring at me?

Do you remember what is said meeting your boyfriend's friends does?

You said it shows what kind of people you hang out with and

you could hear some gossip about me from my friends.

And...

What did Cui Big Mouth say to you?

He said despite knowing you for so many years,

you've never brought a girl before him.

Is that true?

Yes.

Not even once?

How is that possible?

Don't tell me you've never had a girlfriend before?

Of course not.

I just...

Just what?

I just didn't care for dating.

Didn't care for dating?

Because I feel dating is difficult.

Clearly everyone is used to their own lifestyle habits for most of their life.

But when you're dating,

you have to change for the other person

and compromise your own living habits

to do things you normally hate.

If you don't do that, you have no right to say you love her.

In other words,

if you are unable to become the person of their dreams

then it shows you don't love them enough.