Find Yourself (Zi Shen Shao Nv De Chu Lian / 资深少女的初恋)

The problem between the two of you

is that you're only giving her a sense of belonging,

not a sense of security.

Isn't the sense of security the foundation for a sense of belonging?

A sense of belonging is, "I am yours."

But a sense of security is, "You are mine."

These are two opposite feelings.

I see.

Likewise, you only found a sense of belonging.

Yes.

I belong to her.

I want her to be happy.

I want to become a capable man.

That has always been my goal.

But looks like we both feel insecure.

Kid,

a sense of security is not necessarily a good thing in a relationship.

When we feel secure, we tend to neglect our partner.

We are no longer romantic and we become complacent.

She will be assured that you will never leave

and won't put in much effort.

Look at those married couples,

giving each other 520 yuan as gifts on their anniversary

and posting on social media.

The money will end up being saved

as an educational fund for their children.

I haven't thought about this.

That's normal because it's something in your distant future.

The most pressing matter is for you two

to establish a sense of security.

Because we're insecure,

we tend to keep it to ourselves whenever problems arise.

We are wary and afraid of discussing those issues.

Perhaps the problem lies with me.

When problems arise in a relationship,

it's not just one person's fault.

I still have to deal with mine first.

Meiyin,

I won't study abroad anymore.

I can't leave her.

So I'm staying.

I knew it.

Love is everything.

Be gentle.

Your shoulders are stiffer than Mom's.

Don't you dare mention "old" and "mom" in front of me today.

Is it better?

Yes!

It feels so much better.

Why did you buy an evening gown?

Is a colleague getting married?

Whatever you say.

"Whatever you say."

Look.

What?

That's Yuan Song's ex.

About 300 to 360 kilograms?

The one I told you, who refused to break up and was really clingy.

Then what about Wu Meiyin?

Wu Meiyin?

Our food is definitely safe.

Look at the size of our shop.

The SAIC and MOH have checked us.

So we can guarantee that it's very safe.

For the past 30 years...

Why won't you tell me?

Don't you have faith in me?

-How long will you like me? -How long will you like me?

Can we just...

stay in this moment forever?

Am I really included

in your future?

Thank God!

You're finally here, Yuan Song.

What happened to your partner?

Forget it, he's dating a girl,

and she won't let him dance with me.

She would break up with him if he held another girl's hand.

The show is tonight.

I can only ask for your help.

Fine, let's rehearse then.

What's the song?

"Come Dance With Me".

What is wrong with you, He Fanxing?

Why won't you answer my calls?

Buy me dinner.

Why aren't you replying? Are you busy?

He Fanxing, is your hand broken?

Should I visit you at the hospital?

Why aren't you answering your phone? Are you okay?

It's because I need some time.

RESIGNATION CERTIFICATE

No matter how difficult the task may be,

time will let me know

that it is time to clear things up.

That it is time

to make a decision.

Okay, sure. Thank you.

Just call me if you need help.

Okay, bye.

What's up with you lately?

You have been avoiding me and acting strange.

Did I offend you?

Are you asking me to apologize?

If you cannot give me a good reason,

then you need to apologize.

Fine.

Then tell me the truth.

What is up with you and Ye Luming?

We're friends.

Why did you take him to your gathering and tell others that he's your boyfriend?

How did you know?

Your classmate, Amy told me.

Yuan Song was there.

We can't both be wrong about this.

Are you saying that it's a misunderstanding?

No.

I knew it.

Friendship between men and women is just an excuse to keep flirting.

Aren't you and Chang Huan friends?

Yes, but he likes me!

If you two have that kind of relationship,

you should have rejected me.

You shouldn't just say that he likes someone else

and let me believe that she's a stranger.

I thought I had a chance.

Regarding this,

I would like to apologize to you.

But I really thought that he liked someone else.

I only found out the truth recently.

It doesn't matter when you found out.

You should have told me immediately

instead of letting me act like a fool around you two.

You're outrageous.

-Chang Huan. -Yes?

How much time do you need?

Should I go and get a table first?

No, I'm nearly done.

Give me ten minutes.

Okay, I'll pack up my stuff first.

Okay.

Looks like it's going very well.

-I'll leave first. -All right.

-Bye. -Bye.

Hello?

Okay, I'll be right there.

I'll go get my dress from my uncle.

Let me see.

Yes, this is the dress from your advertising shoot.

I love it so much.

Thank you, Uncle.

Don't you have other dresses? Why do you want this?

It's not the same.

My dream guy and I will do the opening dance,

and his girlfriend will be here too.

I may not be as beautiful as she is, but at least I'll look nice.

What?

Is your masquerade open to the public as well?

Of course, many are bringing along their boyfriends and girlfriends.

Ladies get in for free, but men will be charged 200 yuan.

Why don't you stay and have fun too?

You have never seen me dance, right?

All right.

Where's your girlfriend?

I can't tell from those masks,

but she's wearing a red dress today.

Then she'll be your red rose tonight

and I'll be your moonlight.

Dream on.

A big shout-out to the handsome dancers of the Pop Dance Club.

Now let's welcome the Ballroom Dance Club

to perform a lovely waltz for us.

The song is "Come Dance With Me".

Please give them a round of applause.

Why are you here?

Okay, you can let go now.

You're good.

You dare to ignore my calls.

I didn't know what to say.

What's wrong?

Did you two have a fight?

I understand that you're upset and you don't want to talk to anyone.

But if you're unhappy, you can talk to me.

I am your love guru.

-Love guru? -Yes.

Look, you can't do this again

or our friendship is over.

Over?

You wouldn't do that for real.

Why not?

Don't you have someone you like?

Show me her photo.

Don't bother.

You don't have one

because she never existed.

From the very beginning,

you tried very hard to give me gifts.

I thought you were someone's backup.

This is for you.

Thanks for taking care of Love Charm.