When We Leave (Die Fremde)

WHEN WE LEAVE

Are you ready?

Mommy!

Does it hurt?

I'm fine.

Mommy where were you?

Thank you.

Enjoy your meal.

So, how is Melek?

Much better.

Now eat properly, son.

Melek will get better, God willing.

I'm sure she was happy to see you.

We didn't go to Aunt Melek's.

Be quiet and eat.

We waited really long for Mommy.

I told you to eat!

Open your mouth.

Are you deaf?

Stop it, Kemal!

Eat your food!

Come back here!

Don't, Kemal!

What are you doing?

Leave him alone!

Get out of my way!

Don't hurt him!

Get in there!

Zeynep, come on! We're late.

Umay!

My child...

Mom!

Why didn't you tell us you were coming?

Cem!

Look how tall you've grown! - Hello!

Hello, my darling!

You're so big.

Come in! Come!

Where's Kemal?

So what do we do now?

I missed you so much.

It's so nice to have you here.

Father!

Welcome.

Let me take that.

Let me kiss your hand, Father.

Umay! What a surprise!

Cem, come here.

Hurry up!

Where's Kemal?

In Istanbul.

Have a seat.

Come.

Ifyou'd let us know, we would have picked you up.

You're so much bigger than you were in the pictures.

Show me your hands.

My Lord! Look at that...

They're so big.

When's Kemal coming?

In a few days, for sure.

He's got a lot ofwork.

Are you ticklish?

Catch me, Grandpa! - You bet I'll catch you.

Stop that!

Your father has high blood pressure.

He shouldn't get too excited.

How's the cafe doing?

Good. Kemal fixed it up.

Why don't you open another one?

You could even open one here.

That would be nice.

He's not coming.

He's not coming?

What's that supposed to mean?

Umay!

What are you doing here?

Sit down.

Sit down!

What took you so long?

I was doing stuff.

When did you get here?

She's not staying long.

Mind your own business.

Did you say something?

You heard me.

What did you say?

Are you deaf or something? - What did you say?

Are you deaf?

Sit down!

Finish your meal!

He didn't meant it like that.

It's exactly what he meant.

Mehmet says you'll make Cem a bastard ifyou take him away from Kemal.

You've grown up.

He looks like you.

I was a lot fatter.

She was homesick...

I know... I know...

But you know how young women can be.

It's only for a few days.

She's very sad. She doesn't want to upset you.

Please, tell Kemal.

Alright.

God bless you.

Where's Cem?

Don't get upset, my child.

Your father took him to Friday prayers.

Why didn't you wake me?

I wanted to let you sleep in.

Eat something, my child.

You're so skinny.

Remember, how you fought your brother for this seat?

Now you're back in your favorite chair.

If only you talked to Kemal...

We just don't get along. It will never work.

Things aren't always exactly how we'd like them to be, my child.

No matter what, you cannot separate your son from his father.

I'm miserable, Mom.

Is that what you want?

I can't do it anymore.

I'm exhausted.

You told me you'd be here for me, no matter what.

Let's make a ball.

Going out?

Yes, Mother.

I'll be back at five.

I've got to go. I'll be back in three hours.

You can't do that. - Wait for me.

Hey, wait!

No!

Holy Shit! I don't believe it!

Do you wish you'd have kept the baby?

He'll never change.

I missed you.

I missed you, too.

A lot.

Is this how a man behaves?

I'm sorry. We were in the park. I lost track oftime.

Act like a man! Understood? - Yes.

A real man acts like one!

Yes.

So?

What?

You're in love!

He's got such beautiful hands.

Beautiful hands?

Look.

We're getting married.

You're too young, Rana.

Look at me.

Please...

Leave me alone.

I know what I'm doing.

I love him, Umay.

Will you be with me at my wedding?

Of course.

It's been a week.

What are you going to do?

Have you made a decision?

I'm staying here.

Find work, go to school.

It's notjust about you, you know.

You have a son.

And what about us?

Everyone's talking about us.

You want too much.

Better than too little.

You're a twenty-five year old mother.

You're too old!

Stop dreaming!

I gave up a lot for you kids too.

Do you want me to end up like you?

Forgive me.

I'm sorry.

I didn't mean to hurt you.

Ifyou worked here, where would your child stay?

It's taken care of.

Really?

Yes, my family will help me.

Ok. You've got the job.

Thank you.

Do you watch this at home, too?

I am home, Father.

Umay, my child, we love you.

You're our oldest daughter.

But you belong to Kemal.

You are a married woman.

He beats me.

He's your husband.

The hand that strikes is also the hand that soothes.

A slap or two is no reason to run.

I'm not going back.

I'm going to live here.

How do you intend to do that?

You are not alone.

Did we raise you to bring shame upon us?

You will return to Kemal.

You always praised Uncle Bekir

for choosing his own path in life.

I still do.