Find Yourself (Zi Shen Shao Nv De Chu Lian / 资深少女的初恋)

Qingfeng, are you listening?

I'm reading it to you.

I've always carried my keys with me since I was young.

I'm used to it.

I disagreed

when Canyang wanted to install the keyless door lock.

The things left behind by our ancestors

are slowly disappearing and becoming outdated.

That's right.

Do you still remember?

When we just got married,

I wanted a bicycle so bad.

We saved for months

and you bought me a Phoenix brand bicycle later.

Then we saved for another few months

and got you a Shanghai brand watch.

It's exactly like

how young people nowadays

save for months just to buy a bag.

Our golden days

are gone.

They're long gone.

Hello, are you He Fanxing?

-Yes. -Your delivery.

-Thank you. -Welcome. Bye.

All right, it's done.

The default password is six zeroes.

Reset it according to the manual and register your fingerprints.

-Okay, thank you. -You're welcome.

Dad, Mom.

Come and register your fingerprints.

So fast?

-That's right, hurry. -Come.

Mom, look. This is a GPS tracking wristband.

No matter where Dad goes, we'll be able to find him.

He'll never get lost.

So this blinking red dot means that

he's in the residential area now?

Yes.

This wristband is connected to my phone and Canyang's.

Both of us can check Dad's location anytime and anywhere.

-By the way, Dad. -Yes?

It's waterproof.

-You don't have to take it off. -Is that so?

Good thing I have this.

Your mom was planning to put Baylor's leash on me.

What are you saying?

This is really good.

-I'll help you put it on. -I can do it myself.

Who is going to help me put it on when you're not around?

Coming!

-I'll help you fasten it. -You're home.

We have a keyless door lock now?

Yes, register your fingerprints and connect your phone to the wristband.

-Wristband? -Yes.

-Let me see. -I got this for Dad.

Goodness.

Twins are truly telepathic.

I bought the same one.

Great. Give it to me.

Your sister said it can count my steps every day

and check our sleeping quality.

I have one now!

From now on, you won't go missing either.

I'm not worried about getting lost.

I don't have dementia.

I'm the one who has dementia.

Canyang, get the door.

Okay.

Look.

-Look at this. -Look.

Jiacheng, it's you.

Are your parents home?

-Yes. -Is Jiacheng here?

Come in.

Did you get off work early today?

Yes, I came to see Mr. He.

Come here.

Mr. He, this is for you.

She asked you out to play badminton so readily.

She must be up to something.

She is usually quiet

and focused on her job.

She's definitely tough.

I know.

She readily agreed to go

to my graduation party before.

When she is easy to talk to and she simply agrees to things,

then it's over.

You know her very well.

They have a neighbor called Mrs. Wang.

Her son dated a girl who is ten years older than him.

They caused a fuss

for the sake of their love.

His family strongly objected.

Mrs. Wang wanted to slit her wrist and hang herself,

and demanded her son to make a choice.

The relationship was doomed from the beginning.

He decided to listen to his mom.

He went on a blind date,

married a girl his family liked and had twins.

He's a happy man now.

The human heart has built-in intelligence.

When it encounters conflicts, it will adjust itself

to adapt to the world.

It will become flexible and positive.

It will justify and convince itself.

Without this function,

asylums would probably be everywhere in the world.

Actually, He Fanxing is not as brave as she thinks she is.

When she likes someone, she'll be overly cautious.

She's greedy and timid.

She wants it all.

If you're willing to commit to her,

I believe her family

might not object to it.

What I mean is

I'm one of the people she cares about.

I gave up on studying abroad for her on my own accord.

It was a huge blow to her.

When she likes someone,

she'll protect everything about him, including his dreams.

She'll try her best to remove his obstacles

and let him grow freely.

No wonder you can't get over her.

You and your dad are total opposites.

I understood these things after I broke up with her.

So you still won't back down.

In this world,

I suppose you don't always get what you want.

Now that I think about it,

when we were together,

I never considered her family's feelings.

I blamed her for caring about other people's opinions.

If we really went public with our relationship,

it would probably cause chaos too.

Our ending

wouldn't have been better than their neighbor's son.

If women are a school for men,

my son can finally graduate.

You're thinking like an adult now.

Do you still want me to get her back?

No.

No one can take what's yours and you can't take what isn't yours.

This is probably the conclusion from the adjustment of the heart.

You learn fast! Cheers.

-Look at these. -Look.

I think my babies are crying.

I'd better hurry home.

My mom can't do it alone.

Isn't your wife home?

Since I'm home, I let her go shopping with her friends.

Look.

Jiacheng is such a good husband.

You have really low standards for a good man.

I'll get going.

Mr. He, see you again.

Don't bring so many gifts next time.

-Okay. -Go.

Drop by when you're free.

Sure.

I'll walk him out.

Fanxing, it's fine.

Jiacheng.

How are things with you and your wife?

We don't fight anymore.

Do you love her?

I do!

I think it's not easy for her.

I'm just a highway tollman.

I'm often away.

She's the one taking care of our kids.

I think if a family

can stay together

with no trials or tribulations,

then that's happiness.

That's good.

Go on home.

I'm going, Fanxing. Get inside.

Are you drinking again? Stop!

Stop and be good!

Stop drinking.

I know you're upset.

Why did you let him drink so much?

You're finally here.

We're happy.

Look at you.

-Drinking can drown your sorrows! -All right.

Yuan Song!

-Yuan Song! -Go home!

Your dad is here to take you home.

Let's go.

Be careful.

-Good boy. -What's...

What's going on with you?

-I'm upset. -He's upset.

-Okay. -All right.

Dad's here.

I'll stick up for you. Don't cry.

Come, let's go home.