No Ordinary Love

Let's turn in our Bibles to Ephesians five, 22.

Wives submit onto your own husband as onto the Lord,

for the husband is the head of the wife,

even as Christ is the head of the church.

And he is the savior of the body.

Pick up, pick up, pick up.

Reach the phone.

Pick up, Pick up.

If you would like to leave a message, press one.

Now listen to this.

Therefore, as the church is subject unto Christ,

so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.

Dad, I'm leaving the church right now

and something, something happened

and I need you to do something for me dad.

I, I think I may have done.

Now as we head out today

and we go to Take our next meal with our family,

let's just remember this.

Husbands, well, our obligation

is to keep the household in order.

And wive, well, keep it clean.

Okay.

Hello, gorgeous.

- Hello. - Hey.

Do you think your husband would mind if I kissed you?

He may.

But I say go for it anyway.

Get a room.

Ladies.

He is so amazing.

If Johnny was half the man the pastor is,

I would have a permanent smile on my face.

Well no one's perfect Elaine.

We all have our issues.

It seems like you may have

found that one needle in a haystack.

Hey girl, you are fine.

What's that?

Boys.

Oh, now calm down Elizabeth.

She is put together like a grown woman.

Micheal.

What?

Hey, it's okay to acknowledge her beauty.

It's biblical.

Hey at least the boy aint gay, right?

Hey, you don't worry about your mom,

all right, she's just jealous.

Cause she knows that she would embarrass us all

If she tried to squeeze into a dress like that.

Good grief, hey Liz, Liz stop for a second okay?

Come here, it was just a joke.

It wasn't funny.

Okay.

Well how about I take you out

to a nice fancy restaurant for lunch this week

and you can wear the smallest dress that you can fit into.

It really was just a joke.

I'm just, I'm just playing around

Make yourselves comfortable.

How are you Faith?

Fine.

Tell me how my little friend here is doing.

Faith shut down at school.

She usually makes good grades and is well behaved.

I'm not sure what happened.

She's fine at home.

We laugh and play.

Are any of the students at school hurting you?

Faith, honey?

No one is hurting me.

Okay.

No, no, no, please keep going, please keep going.

Daddy look, I'm making dinner.

I see, let me see, let me see, let's see what you got.

Hey.

Hot.

Good after noon beautiful.

How was your workout?

It was good, worked up an appetite.

Good, isn't it?

What is that?

Patience grasshopper.

This is for dinner.

I have some lunch for you in the fridge.

Hey baby, go grab that red bowl

from the refrigerator for me.

So what do we have going on for the rest of the day?

I am meeting Grace.

I haven't seen my sister in over a year

and she only lives 45 minutes from me.

That's because we decided that she wasn't in a good place

and that we didn't want her dragging you down with her.

No, you decided that she wasn't in a good place

because she's single.

I think it would be really nice to catch up with my sister.

I'll only be an hour and a half or so.

I think she can help me get my book off the ground.

You said that you supported that.

You know I support everything you do.

It's fine.

Go.

Maybe we can go to a movie when mama gets back.

Mommy's too busy for us today.

Faith, baby, a movie is a great idea.

We'll all go when I get back.

Is this going to be a problem later?

Not for me.

You know what? I'll just cancel.

I can meet up with her some other time.

Whatever you decide.

You're hanging out all times of day,

and I'm working my butt.

How am I hanging out?

I'm at home every single day, all day.

I am done with this conversation.

I'm done.

Don't you walk away from me.

Get your hands off of me.

Let me go Derek!

I don't know...

Today was a good day.

And why is that?

Let me show you how to properly greet your husband.

I know how to greet you Michael,

I'm just trying to get your ironing done

so I can have your dinner ready by seven.

First you smile when he walks in.

Then you kiss him, like you haven't

seen him for days, embrace him.

Embrace me.

That's all I get?

Tell me about your day.

We've got the yes we've been waiting on for the permit.

Oh, that's fantastic.

I guess I finally won him over with my charm.

Well I'm proud of you.

I ran into a church member this morning.

I'm concerned, her face was bruised pretty badly.

Did she tell you what happened?

Yeah, it's her husband.

I don't know much about him,

I've only seen him at church a few times.

Is she a good wife to him?

I don't know, but he shouldn't be beating on her.

Okay, that's not what I meant.

But usually men lash out like that

because their wives are pushing them.

Explain.

The more respect you show a man,

the more love he will give in return.

Can't believe this is coming out of your mouth.

Well, it's not, it's biblical.

The Bible literally commands wives to respect

their husbands, to submit to them.

It's going to be in their best interest for both of them

if she's as obedient to him

as possible while he's going through this phase.

Phase?

Clearly it's not who he is

or she wouldn't have married him.

Now if his, if his heart changes,

well, then that's a win for her and for the kingdom.

Yeah, praise God.

So I should do nothing?

Offer to counsel them together.

Maybe that'll help.

Anyway, I'll be back down at seven for my dinner.

How about I look into getting you

a little radio for when you're home?

That way you can sing with the music.

Come on, don't look at me like that.

You're singing's not that bad.

Oh baby, come here, come here.

I wouldn't worry about it okay?

You're talented at so many other things.

Girl, he had to go.

He was so fine though.